Anonymous wrote:How old were you and how did you meet them?

38, single mom. I currently have a FWB.
We met at the gym 2 years ago. He doesn't check all the boxes I would want in a partner, but he is a nice guy and has a great body.
We are just friends and we have sex when we need some.

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Anonymous wrote:Yup, with my ex. Best sex of my life although the relationship wasn’t right. Both married to other people now but still hook up 2-3 times a week.

2-3 times a week? Where do you meet? How do you keep this quiet?

Lunch breaks.

Many! Started from my teens and I'm currently in my 50s.

Just once when I was 23. He was very tall with Adonis type looks that were hard to resist so I didn't. His sexual skills were amazing by far the best I have ever had. Unfortunately that was all he had to offer and after a few months the sex just wasn't enough. That was 25 years ago and he's been married twice and I'm sure he"s made many women happy even if just briefly.

Anonymous wrote:Yup, with my ex. Best sex of my life although the relationship wasn’t right. Both married to other people now but still hook up 2-3 times a week.

2-3 times a week? Where do you meet? How do you keep this quiet?

Of course not. But I’d be miserable without it.

You are a selfish POS, but I’m sure you know that. All that matters is you feeling good, amirite?

Someone when I was living abroad. She was engaged and lived with her fiance. I wasn't going to stay in the country for more than a few months.

We calculated we could manage 88 evenings. So that's what we did.

I hope she's well and living a good life.

Had several which were more like one night stands that turned into two, three or four night stands out of convenience including in other cities where I traveled. Recurring relationship even without strings is less common because people who want to do this can and will sleep around with others too. Longest one was a rebound hookup for a girl I met on social media which ended up going a few months, never shelled out a dime and all we did was f*** multiple times per night about once a week in my crappy apartment. Would imagine this is even less frequent in today’s OLD environment where it’s so easy to meet new f*** buddies.

I guess you could call it that. We went on dates, then realized we were not going to fall in love. A while later he caught feelings and realizing we were never going to be boyfriend/girlfriend, did a fadeaway. Then a year later, I contacted him just to play mini golf and he blew me off. Around that time, he met the woman he married.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Yup, with my ex. Best sex of my life although the relationship wasn’t right. Both married to other people now but still hook up 2-3 times a week.

Do your spouses know?

Of course not. But I’d be miserable without it.

Met her on AFF. Terrific oral. I still remember it.

Anonymous wrote:Yup, with my ex. Best sex of my life although the relationship wasn’t right. Both married to other people now but still hook up 2-3 times a week.

Do your spouses know?

He was a travel FWB. We lived far apart but would meet up twice a year in Europe or elsewhere. He was a great travel companion as he had an adventurous spirit. On the first trip we shared a room and a bed and sex just seemed like a fun thing to do and it was. If I ever become single again someone like that would be an ideal companion.

Yup, with my ex. Best sex of my life although the relationship wasn’t right. Both married to other people now but still hook up 2-3 times a week.

Had a few over the years. Best one still tugs at my heart strings, not because either of us ever thought it could be more, but because we were so comfortable together and truly on the same page with regard to both the friendship and the benefits. He moved away, otherwise I think it would have continued indefinitely.