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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is a 1. She got very fat. She is 5'3:220lbs. I can't even have an erection anymore because of her disgusting gut

My wife gained 80-90lbs from the time we met until now. My dick still works, though, so this might be a you problem.

Nah, wife here and I wouldn’t blame a guy for not being able to get it up for sex under those circumstances. I can’t make myself do it with DH who has also gained 30+lbs. I really don’t understand how people who let themselves go and put no effort into their appearance expect people to desire them. Nope.

Nah, desire begins in the mind, not the eyes. Lay off the porn/fapping and learn how to use your brain better. Needing to be seduced is a skill issue.

Mines a brilliant-in-his-field professor with a big crowd of fans where ever he goes. To them he's an 8 or 9

25 years ago He was a 10 but he drinks too much doesn't exercise and to me, has poor hygiene so ugh - 3 or 4 - i would not look twice at him now.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:She is a 1. She got very fat. She is 5'3:220lbs. I can't even have an erection anymore because of her disgusting gut

My wife gained 80-90lbs from the time we met until now. My dick still works, though, so this might be a you problem.

Nah, wife here and I wouldn’t blame a guy for not being able to get it up for sex under those circumstances. I can’t make myself do it with DH who has also gained 30+lbs. I really don’t understand how people who let themselves go and put no effort into their appearance expect people to desire them. Nope.

Anonymous wrote:DH has put on 50 lbs in 20 years of marriage. Used to be a 7, is now a 3. I would rate my own attractiveness has declined from 8 to 4 or 5. I’ve put on 30 lbs (2 kids) We are still in love. Fat and old together, lol.

Not old for long if you don’t lose weight.

Anonymous wrote:She is a 1. She got very fat. She is 5'3:220lbs. I can't even have an erection anymore because of her disgusting gut

It’s called ED and they have meds for that.

DH has put on 50 lbs in 20 years of marriage. Used to be a 7, is now a 3. I would rate my own attractiveness has declined from 8 to 4 or 5. I’ve put on 30 lbs (2 kids) We are still in love. Fat and old together, lol.

Anonymous wrote:She is a 1. She got very fat. She is 5'3:220lbs. I can't even have an erection anymore because of her disgusting gut

My wife gained 80-90lbs from the time we met until now. My dick still works, though, so this might be a you problem.

She is a 1. She got very fat. She is 5'3:220lbs. I can't even have an erection anymore because of her disgusting gut

If he lost weight a sparkly eyed 8. He’s like a 4 now. I’m prob similar. We were both beautiful once lol

He used to be a 4 or 5 but at age 52 he decided to make his health a priority finally, runs almost every day, stopped smoking weed multiple times a week, lost his beer belly and squishy ass and is tall and lean now. Rick hard legs. He worked his way up to a 7/8 in late middle age. Meanwhile I hit perimenopause and have gone from a solid 8 to a 5! So unfair!

Anonymous wrote:If you knew what he did to me in bed and how it feels you’d think he’s hot too

Make sure he knows how you feel!

Anonymous wrote:He was a solid 8/10 when we first met almost 30 years ago. Now he’s gained a lot of weight and is a 4-5, but I’ve aged too.

Fair

Anonymous wrote:He very much has a dad bod but other women have told me he is “cute” and his face is very handsome. Maybe 7/10. If he was fit he’d be 9/10. Or maybe I love him or something.

Lucky guy. 💕

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Anonymous wrote:3-4…. Too fat

Same. A 3.

I used to be an 8.5. Working really hard to be a 7 now in midlife.

OP did not ask you to rate yourself.

There you go men. Stay in shape or else....