Anonymous
09/07/2025 13:52
Subject: If your father hit/beat you as punishment when your were a child
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I got spanked rarely and I did deserve it.
No issues. I married a great man like my dad. Very happily married.
+1 except I got hit a lot more and did deserve it. The spankings came when the talking didn't work. My siblings called me 'old iron ass' because I always had to have the last word/it took a long time for me to learn to just shut up and stop arguing when my parents were just trying to keep me safe. Typical youngest born/pushing boundaries. My brothers got spanked here and there. My oldest sister-never. Spanking isn't for everyone (either the spanker or the spankee).
I didn't extrapolate this to mean it was ok to randomly hit others/strangers/spouses as my parents did not verbally abuse or assault each other. They were also very supportive/communicative/involved with all of us and our activities so in our case it definitely wasn't a "I just feel like hitting my kid" situation.
I don't automatically judge anyone either way when it comes to spanking/not spanking their kids. But I have met a few people in life where I think to myself "this person should have been spanked more as a child".
You are a sick human. No one deserves to be hit ever!
Shame on you!
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Get lost.
Anonymous
09/07/2025 13:34
Subject: If your father hit/beat you as punishment when your were a child
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I got spanked rarely and I did deserve it.
No issues. I married a great man like my dad. Very happily married.
+1 except I got hit a lot more and did deserve it. The spankings came when the talking didn't work. My siblings called me 'old iron ass' because I always had to have the last word/it took a long time for me to learn to just shut up and stop arguing when my parents were just trying to keep me safe. Typical youngest born/pushing boundaries. My brothers got spanked here and there. My oldest sister-never. Spanking isn't for everyone (either the spanker or the spankee).
I didn't extrapolate this to mean it was ok to randomly hit others/strangers/spouses as my parents did not verbally abuse or assault each other. They were also very supportive/communicative/involved with all of us and our activities so in our case it definitely wasn't a "I just feel like hitting my kid" situation.
I don't automatically judge anyone either way when it comes to spanking/not spanking their kids. But I have met a few people in life where I think to myself "this person should have been spanked more as a child".
You are a sick human. No one deserves to be hit ever!
Shame on you!
Anonymous
09/07/2025 13:33
Subject: Re:If your father hit/beat you as punishment when your were a child
Anonymous wrote:I was hit very rarely but not once in my memory did I deserve it.
My parents were very stressed, and not very emotionally intelligent. They naturally fell into the expected pattern set by their parents.
I have a normal relationship with them not close but around, but underneath I despise their actions to a young child.
I don't fully trust anyone immediately. There's a long vetting process.
Of course, you did not "deserve" to be hit.
"My parents were very stressed, and not very emotionally intelligent. They naturally fell into the expected pattern set by their parents." This is an excuse. Your parents are not good humans.
Anonymous
09/07/2025 13:26
Subject: If your father hit/beat you as punishment when your were a child
I was hit by my father and my mother was abused as well. So were my siblings. There is never an excuse to be abusive. I tapped my kid on his bottom ONCE not hard and I still regret it.