Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want to put in effort to keep their romantic and sexual life fun. They’ve always had it handed to them. Women need more. Women are amazing generous partners as long as you act like you care. Sure, there can be lulls, but men stop caring about their marriage as soon as the ring is on. They think it means they don’t have to work anymore.

The parallel is women also do that, but by getting obese and lazy.

Men get fat and bald and flabby what’s your point?

Women get fat and bald and flabby. What's your point? Stop being sexist bigot.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want to put in effort to keep their romantic and sexual life fun. They’ve always had it handed to them. Women need more. Women are amazing generous partners as long as you act like you care. Sure, there can be lulls, but men stop caring about their marriage as soon as the ring is on. They think it means they don’t have to work anymore.

The parallel is women also do that, but by getting obese and lazy.

I haven’t seen that among my community. A quick google search says 39.2% of men and 41.3% of women are obese in America. Not a very meaningful difference. Men operate under the assumption that women don’t care about looks or weight simply because women don’t treat overweight men with the same disdain that men treat fat women. I care. It’s killed my marriage.

There are stricter standards for obesity in males.

Many of those "studies" also use BMI not bodyfat %, so they are way off, as men carry more muscle than women which skews the results.

Currently banging a married woman in her early 30s. No kids, she’s just bored with her “nice” vanilla husband. She admitted she’s cheated a couple times throughout the decade they’ve been married. She’s very discreet - no photos, disappearing messages, doesn’t give out her phone number, on birth control, etc.

In cases like these, there’s always a risk she’s bipolar or BPD; they are more apt to be hyper sexual. But this woman is incredibly even keeled, rational, no drama, not clingy, very health conscious. She said that this is something she “selfishly do for myself, similar to a spa day.” It’s as if it’s part of her self-care routine.

I was shocked. But there’s many women like this.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want to put in effort to keep their romantic and sexual life fun. They’ve always had it handed to them. Women need more. Women are amazing generous partners as long as you act like you care. Sure, there can be lulls, but men stop caring about their marriage as soon as the ring is on. They think it means they don’t have to work anymore.

The parallel is women also do that, but by getting obese and lazy.

Men get fat and bald and flabby what’s your point?

Old white men are the worst especially Christian bible thumping ones

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want to put in effort to keep their romantic and sexual life fun. They’ve always had it handed to them. Women need more. Women are amazing generous partners as long as you act like you care. Sure, there can be lulls, but men stop caring about their marriage as soon as the ring is on. They think it means they don’t have to work anymore.

+1. As a guy I'll say that men underestimate that women have the same mindset like us. Namely, if they are horny and not satisfied at home they will get it elsewhere.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want to put in effort to keep their romantic and sexual life fun. They’ve always had it handed to them. Women need more. Women are amazing generous partners as long as you act like you care. Sure, there can be lulls, but men stop caring about their marriage as soon as the ring is on. They think it means they don’t have to work anymore.

The parallel is women also do that, but by getting obese and lazy.

I haven’t seen that among my community. A quick google search says 39.2% of men and 41.3% of women are obese in America. Not a very meaningful difference. Men operate under the assumption that women don’t care about looks or weight simply because women don’t treat overweight men with the same disdain that men treat fat women. I care. It’s killed my marriage.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want to put in effort to keep their romantic and sexual life fun. They’ve always had it handed to them. Women need more. Women are amazing generous partners as long as you act like you care. Sure, there can be lulls, but men stop caring about their marriage as soon as the ring is on. They think it means they don’t have to work anymore.

The parallel is women also do that, but by getting obese and lazy.

Yeah, no kidding. The old saying is that a man go into marriage hoping that the woman won't change, and the woman hopes the man will change. Both will be disappointed.

That's often so true. Thinking about many couples who thought that way.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want to put in effort to keep their romantic and sexual life fun. They’ve always had it handed to them. Women need more. Women are amazing generous partners as long as you act like you care. Sure, there can be lulls, but men stop caring about their marriage as soon as the ring is on. They think it means they don’t have to work anymore.

The parallel is women also do that, but by getting obese and lazy.

Yeah, no kidding. The old saying is that a man go into marriage hoping that the woman won't change, and the woman hopes the man will change. Both will be disappointed.

I think its always been roughly 50-50. The only change is that women might be a little more honest today in their answers to researchers.

Anonymous wrote:Men don’t want to put in effort to keep their romantic and sexual life fun. They’ve always had it handed to them. Women need more. Women are amazing generous partners as long as you act like you care. Sure, there can be lulls, but men stop caring about their marriage as soon as the ring is on. They think it means they don’t have to work anymore.

The parallel is women also do that, but by getting obese and lazy.

Anonymous wrote:I think Gen Z just isn’t feeling commitment and monogamy. They are getting married at a much lower rate as well as a rise of non committal “situationships”.

Because they are getting red pilled and realizing the system is rigged against them these days.

Men don’t want to put in effort to keep their romantic and sexual life fun. They’ve always had it handed to them. Women need more. Women are amazing generous partners as long as you act like you care. Sure, there can be lulls, but men stop caring about their marriage as soon as the ring is on. They think it means they don’t have to work anymore.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:- according to research:

https://thoughtsonlifeandlove.com/infidelity-are-men-or-women-more-unfaithful/96033/

In younger generations (millennials and Gen Z), the rates of infidelity among men and women are nearly equal. The gender gap in cheating is most pronounced among older generations, where men were historically more likely to have extramarital affairs.

Do you agree with the research results here? Does it match your experience?

Where is the actual data? Your link is to an op-ed that states some stats that are not specific to age groups and doesn’t support your title.

Studies do show that women are actually less naturally monogamous than men but the linked article does not (instead, it just perpetuates the myth about men needing to spread their seed and bla bla bla).

Read the Vice link just below your post:

“On the higher side, there are reported rates of 50 percent of women admitting they have had intercourse with someone other than their spouse while married. I was surprised to learn that, among people in their 20s, married women outpace married men when it comes to infidelity. Also, in several US studies, male and female rates of infidelity are much closer than we’d imagine.”

Equality of infidelity stands.

I’m the PP you responded to and the person who posted the Vice link.

OP posted click bait. We can discuss a topic but if we are going to do it, let’s stick to actual data. I tried to provide it.

More women are working now so there is more opportunities to cheat. Most affairs are starting relating to work or business travel.

Anonymous wrote:- according to research:

https://thoughtsonlifeandlove.com/infidelity-are-men-or-women-more-unfaithful/96033/

In younger generations (millennials and Gen Z), the rates of infidelity among men and women are nearly equal. The gender gap in cheating is most pronounced among older generations, where men were historically more likely to have extramarital affairs.

Do you agree with the research results here? Does it match your experience?

It's more clickbait BS propaganda disguised as "studies" and "journalism".

It's always been about 50/50 gender wise for cheating. Takes two to tango.

It's just that in the past women were more discreet about their liasons. Now they tend to be overly provacative about them for the likes and clicks.

It is what it is, and has always been.