Anonymous wrote:Here's a hypothetical. Let's say you left NVA to FVU or VDA but don't make ECNL playoffs while NVA does great and makes GA playoffs. Who has the better college exposure then?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:These are girl parents right? That’s insane the obsession with team performance. Probably the most disturbing thing about this forum - the analyses and criticism of girls teams and the girls that play on them. So incredibly toxic and just awful parenting.
This. It's bananas.
If you observe understanding this is for comedic relief and to observe compulsive soccer parental disorder syndrome you will be fine. This is such a small segment of soccer parents looking for their opinion to matter in their little bubblesphere. 10% good info, 90% parental gibberish and opinion. But funny to watch, but scary at the same time. Living vicariously through their kids soccer journey.
Yes, I’m assuming it’s a small segment of soccer parents but even the thought that your children is playing with these parents around is freaky.
Theres just such a marked difference between the discussion of boys teams v girls teams. With boys, there isn’t as much specific observations about certain players or teams. Even with often maligned and discussed boys clubs, there’s some baseline recognition that the boys themselves are good players and that the coaching and/or overall style of play is the part that is not great, etc.
While there’s movement between top boys team as well, it seems to happen with less drama or no drama at all!
And this surprises on a predominantly and obviously a soccer Mom's forum?
Anonymous wrote:yeah so last time you guys played together you only won 1-0 FVU on the rise or Arlington just getting worse??😁Anonymous wrote:FVU 2011 win conference. Season starts off slow but finishes strong. Yeah no the day FVU gets past 5th place I'll sell my house🤣 matter fact the day FVU beats Arlington or don't lose by 2+ to them I'll sell my car🤣
Anonymous wrote:Here's a hypothetical. Let's say you left NVA to FVU or VDA but don't make ECNL playoffs while NVA does great and makes GA playoffs. Who has the better college exposure then?
Anonymous wrote:FVU 2011 win conference. Season starts off slow but finishes strong. Yeah no the day FVU gets past 5th place I'll sell my house🤣 matter fact the day FVU beats Arlington or don't lose by 2+ to them I'll sell my car🤣
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's a hypothetical. Let's say you left NVA to FVU or VDA but don't make ECNL playoffs while NVA does great and makes GA playoffs. Who has the better college exposure then?
They all have sufficient exposure. The harder part for getting recruited is standing out from the crowd, performance on the field. Exposure is not going to be the problem.
If exposure isn't the problem then why wouldn't a good player stand out in GA? If ECNL is the better league as evryone here keeps saying than wouldn't it actually be easier for that good player to stand out in GA vs ECNL?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:These are girl parents right? That’s insane the obsession with team performance. Probably the most disturbing thing about this forum - the analyses and criticism of girls teams and the girls that play on them. So incredibly toxic and just awful parenting.
This. It's bananas.
If you observe understanding this is for comedic relief and to observe compulsive soccer parental disorder syndrome you will be fine. This is such a small segment of soccer parents looking for their opinion to matter in their little bubblesphere. 10% good info, 90% parental gibberish and opinion. But funny to watch, but scary at the same time. Living vicariously through their kids soccer journey.
Yes, I’m assuming it’s a small segment of soccer parents but even the thought that your children is playing with these parents around is freaky.
Theres just such a marked difference between the discussion of boys teams v girls teams. With boys, there isn’t as much specific observations about certain players or teams. Even with often maligned and discussed boys clubs, there’s some baseline recognition that the boys themselves are good players and that the coaching and/or overall style of play is the part that is not great, etc.
While there’s movement between top boys team as well, it seems to happen with less drama or no drama at all!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here's a hypothetical. Let's say you left NVA to FVU or VDA but don't make ECNL playoffs while NVA does great and makes GA playoffs. Who has the better college exposure then?
They all have sufficient exposure. The harder part for getting recruited is standing out from the crowd, performance on the field. Exposure is not going to be the problem.
Anonymous wrote:FVU 2011 win conference. Season starts off slow but finishes strong.
Also consider these kids aren't even in high school yet and their parents are treating a teams youth soccer season like it matters for something other than a unique childhood experience for their kid. Before it even starts!Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:These are girl parents right? That’s insane the obsession with team performance. Probably the most disturbing thing about this forum - the analyses and criticism of girls teams and the girls that play on them. So incredibly toxic and just awful parenting.
This. It's bananas.
If you observe understanding this is for comedic relief and to observe compulsive soccer parental disorder syndrome you will be fine. This is such a small segment of soccer parents looking for their opinion to matter in their little bubblesphere. 10% good info, 90% parental gibberish and opinion. But funny to watch, but scary at the same time. Living vicariously through their kids soccer journey.
Yes, I’m assuming it’s a small segment of soccer parents but even the thought that your children is playing with these parents around is freaky.
Theres just such a marked difference between the discussion of boys teams v girls teams. With boys, there isn’t as much specific observations about certain players or teams. Even with often maligned and discussed boys clubs, there’s some baseline recognition that the boys themselves are good players and that the coaching and/or overall style of play is the part that is not great, etc.
While there’s movement between top boys team as well, it seems to happen with less drama or no drama at all!
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:These are girl parents right? That’s insane the obsession with team performance. Probably the most disturbing thing about this forum - the analyses and criticism of girls teams and the girls that play on them. So incredibly toxic and just awful parenting.
This. It's bananas.
If you observe understanding this is for comedic relief and to observe compulsive soccer parental disorder syndrome you will be fine. This is such a small segment of soccer parents looking for their opinion to matter in their little bubblesphere. 10% good info, 90% parental gibberish and opinion. But funny to watch, but scary at the same time. Living vicariously through their kids soccer journey.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:These are girl parents right? That’s insane the obsession with team performance. Probably the most disturbing thing about this forum - the analyses and criticism of girls teams and the girls that play on them. So incredibly toxic and just awful parenting.
This. It's bananas.