Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Is this really what you want to spend your time on? Yes, they are in the wrong, but this is an area where you mind your own business. Karma comes around and all that.
I have an acquaintance who similarly sent kids to a school - and entire school cluster - after moving. Maybe the schools knew but I doubt it. It’s shady AF but not my business. Does not affect me and I say nothing. I certainly wouldn’t try to blow up their lives over it.
You know DCPS policy allows you to continue at your current school to the terminal grade after moving within DC, right? There's nothing shady about that.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:OP here... I'm finding this all highly entertaining that I've gotten so many of you so worked up yet you're worried about the energy I'm wasting on this. To the person saving their MySchoolDC emails worried about "people like me"... my child also attends an out-of-boundary school "in the fancy part of town" - a spot that earned through the lottery as well. I am well aware that there are perfectly legitimate ways to attend a school outside of your boundary school. What I didn't like most about how this family handled things was the child and family walked around loudly telling everyone that they won a lottery spot to Jackson Reed, as if the data on whether that has happened at that school isn't publicly available to all. I know plenty of folks who have gamed the system, never thinking that I needed to report a thing, as I don't have the holier-than-thou attitude that you all think I do. It was this particular situation and this family's boldness that made me want to speak up. And to an early poster who asked if I want them to see this... well, I highly doubt they're on this forum, but yes I would definitely love them to know that they've spent years telling the same boldface lie but they didn't fool everyone.
OP, do you care that your actions will harm a child who has made friends and joined activities and built relationships at this school? They may be needlessly bold and who knows whether they are telling the truth, but you lack empathy for a child! You should feel ashamed. I don’t think I could live with my own moral compass if I took a direct and needless action to emotionally (or physically of course) harm a child.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Pretty sure you’d just report it to the school, as they’re the ones verifying addresses on entry (whether that’s in-bounds or lottery or whatever). But as others have said, pretty sure they’re not going to take this seriously especially if the kid/family are DC residents. I’m showing my age, but they couldn’t even get rid of that ridiculous Takoma family with the Capitol Hill/Brent rental - even once viral with the contested treehouse. That was fun!
That family doesn't live in Takoma. They live on Capitol Hill but IB for a different school. (One that is now sufficiently popular that they may not have needed the fraud, but I guess felt they did at the time.) Nonetheless I agree that it's crazy they admit it's not their principal residence in all the treehouse paperwork/website material yet claimed it for school purposes.
Ahhh yes, thank you! As noted above, showing my age, which apparently now includes a hint of memory loss, ha. I thought when their Craigslist rental post went up on Popville lambasting all of the sketchy conditions (enter only though a back door requiring a stepstool, you’re only allowed one suitcase of personal items despite being a full-time resident, expect landlords to come over often and help themselves to your food…) AND with a former renter commenting on the post about how awful they were and that it was for boundary fraud, it would solve it. Nope. Good times.
Anonymous wrote:Whenever this type of thread comes up, most reasonable people express sympathy for the kids involved and prefer to place their best interests above that of the scheming parents.
And then the inevitable retort on the part of the OP and co is that all these posters must be immoral and probably commit fraud themselves. This is so predictable.
OP, I really hope that someone calls you out when you do something the least bit wrong. Busybodies like you don't even realize that you hold others to standards that you might not hold for yourself. No one is perfect. Everyone breaks the rules in different ways. You are the type of person who will always find excuses for your own rule-breaking, but never excuse it in others.
Anonymous wrote:Is this really what you want to spend your time on? Yes, they are in the wrong, but this is an area where you mind your own business. Karma comes around and all that.
I have an acquaintance who similarly sent kids to a school - and entire school cluster - after moving. Maybe the schools knew but I doubt it. It’s shady AF but not my business. Does not affect me and I say nothing. I certainly wouldn’t try to blow up their lives over it.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:All kids suffer from the unfortunate choices of their parents. Why should boundary-fraud kid be different?
Boundary-fraud causes real problems. Think about all the kids who live within walking distance of J-R that now must spend 45+ minutes getting to a new high school because of over-crowding at J-R.
Huh? We’re in-bounds for J-R, and I don’t know any in-bounds kids commuting to a new school, because J-R is overcrowded.
Not in-bounds for J-R now. There are hundreds of families who *were* in-boundary for J-R that have been rezoned to MacArthur, even though they live much, much nearer to J-R.
Anonymous wrote:OP here... I'm finding this all highly entertaining that I've gotten so many of you so worked up yet you're worried about the energy I'm wasting on this. To the person saving their MySchoolDC emails worried about "people like me"... my child also attends an out-of-boundary school "in the fancy part of town" - a spot that earned through the lottery as well. I am well aware that there are perfectly legitimate ways to attend a school outside of your boundary school. What I didn't like most about how this family handled things was the child and family walked around loudly telling everyone that they won a lottery spot to Jackson Reed, as if the data on whether that has happened at that school isn't publicly available to all. I know plenty of folks who have gamed the system, never thinking that I needed to report a thing, as I don't have the holier-than-thou attitude that you all think I do. It was this particular situation and this family's boldness that made me want to speak up. And to an early poster who asked if I want them to see this... well, I highly doubt they're on this forum, but yes I would definitely love them to know that they've spent years telling the same boldface lie but they didn't fool everyone.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:All kids suffer from the unfortunate choices of their parents. Why should boundary-fraud kid be different?
Boundary-fraud causes real problems. Think about all the kids who live within walking distance of J-R that now must spend 45+ minutes getting to a new high school because of over-crowding at J-R.
Huh? We’re in-bounds for J-R, and I don’t know any in-bounds kids commuting to a new school, because J-R is overcrowded.
Anonymous wrote:All kids suffer from the unfortunate choices of their parents. Why should boundary-fraud kid be different?
Boundary-fraud causes real problems. Think about all the kids who live within walking distance of J-R that now must spend 45+ minutes getting to a new high school because of over-crowding at J-R.
Anonymous wrote:OP here... I'm finding this all highly entertaining that I've gotten so many of you so worked up yet you're worried about the energy I'm wasting on this. To the person saving their MySchoolDC emails worried about "people like me"... my child also attends an out-of-boundary school "in the fancy part of town" - a spot that earned through the lottery as well. I am well aware that there are perfectly legitimate ways to attend a school outside of your boundary school. What I didn't like most about how this family handled things was the child and family walked around loudly telling everyone that they won a lottery spot to Jackson Reed, as if the data on whether that has happened at that school isn't publicly available to all. I know plenty of folks who have gamed the system, never thinking that I needed to report a thing, as I don't have the holier-than-thou attitude that you all think I do. It was this particular situation and this family's boldness that made me want to speak up. And to an early poster who asked if I want them to see this... well, I highly doubt they're on this forum, but yes I would definitely love them to know that they've spent years telling the same boldface lie but they didn't fool everyone.