Anonymous wrote:OP again - thanks all for the responses. Looking back at my post, it seems I inadvertently gave some of you the impression that my kid is an extreme goldilocks - "a town is too small, a city too big!" What I meant to convey is that I already know a city would suit my kid but was looking at smaller places that might have enough there or around there to satisfy.
W&M - I think this was wishful thinking on my part as I think the college itself is a great fit. But definitely seems like not enough there.
Kalamazoo and Appleton(Lawrence) - these are both population bigger than Burlington but no one seems to think they are better.
5C Mass - this seems like a maybe
Worcester - I still don't get a sense of this at all. Some of you find it gritty and unwalkable but it also has great food and is a true small city.
Appreciate the Brown and Cornell suggestions but they may be too much of a reach for my kid and my checkbook!
College of Charleston and Tulane will be too red/south but great suggestions.
Will take a closer look at Skidmore and Pitt honor college. As stated in the first post, looking at small/medium schools (non-religious). CA has plenty of great large schools options w/UCs and CSUs.
I actually like Worcester, but it is a city not a college town as I implied upthread and socioeconomically diverse which frightens some UMC people. You should look into much Holy Cross students go into it. There seems be a separation, and kid go into Boston fairly often, so I would make some inquiries if you are still interested.