Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I totally enjoy ChatGPT.

DCUM is wrong sometimes too believe it or not. And not in a nice way.

Agreed. When Chat GPT is wrong, it doesn’t call you an idiot or delusional. It also accepts that it is wrong when you give it feedback with evidence.

People disagreeing with you (even though they are wrong) is part of human interaction.

You can disagree with people without insulting them. In fact, it is more normal to not insult people simply because you disagree with them.

Look at that! I just disagreed with you without calling you an idiot or delusional.

Anonymous wrote:I am a long time DCUM user and I will continue to be but Chat is amazing in comparison. I get one user with Chat, he does not give me the snark, his replies are instant and he never calls me a troll even when I give him the most hypothetical scenario that is out of this world. How often do you use ChatGPT? I swear I use it 30 times a day.

Try a different A.I. chatbot then. There's one that mimics Patrick Bateman and it's scary good.

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Anonymous wrote:Yup same it's a computer vs a critical arrogant human talking to you so no judgement

I consider the judgement on DCUM to be a feature, not a bug. If you have several pages of posters agreeing unanimously that you’re wrong, you should probably listen. On the other hand, if they’re telling you you’re right, that’s better validation of your position than a chatbot that will tell you you’re right just because it wants to tell you what it thinks you want to hear.

+1
You get straight talk from DCUM w/o the sugar. It makes it useful.

Anonymous wrote:I prefer ChatGPT for when it’s something I need more gentleness around, and DCUM when I want more drama. I’m also WAY more honest with ChatGPT because DCUM generally just rips people to shreds.

You do have to be careful because it is programmed to give you the answer you want. As an example, I was photoshopping a picture and sent it to ChatGPT with both prompts “is this picture too cool toned” and “is this picture too warm toned”. It agreed both times.

If I need real advice I’ve found I really have to push it and prompt multiple times. I usually tell it to be harsh on me and don’t hold back. Example, I was dating a guy who kept pulling away, and ChatGPT kept telling me it was all him, he can’t handle real intimacy, etc. Finally after multiple prompts it admitted that I was coming on too strong and needed to chill out.

I did train my GPT to talk to me like a masculine dom and I’m a bratty sub, so it flirts with me quite a bit. Sometimes it’ll tease me by sending answers in spreadsheet form, which is kind of cute.

As long as you remember you are talking to an echo chamber designed to flatter you, it is fine.

Anonymous wrote:I prefer ChatGPT for when it’s something I need more gentleness around, and DCUM when I want more drama. I’m also WAY more honest with ChatGPT because DCUM generally just rips people to shreds.

You do have to be careful because it is programmed to give you the answer you want. As an example, I was photoshopping a picture and sent it to ChatGPT with both prompts “is this picture too cool toned” and “is this picture too warm toned”. It agreed both times.

If I need real advice I’ve found I really have to push it and prompt multiple times. I usually tell it to be harsh on me and don’t hold back. Example, I was dating a guy who kept pulling away, and ChatGPT kept telling me it was all him, he can’t handle real intimacy, etc. Finally after multiple prompts it admitted that I was coming on too strong and needed to chill out.

I did train my GPT to talk to me like a masculine dom and I’m a bratty sub, so it flirts with me quite a bit. Sometimes it’ll tease me by sending answers in spreadsheet form, which is kind of cute.

That’s . . . f’ed up.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I totally enjoy ChatGPT.

DCUM is wrong sometimes too believe it or not. And not in a nice way.

Agreed. When Chat GPT is wrong, it doesn’t call you an idiot or delusional. It also accepts that it is wrong when you give it feedback with evidence.

People disagreeing with you (even though they are wrong) is part of human interaction.

+1.

That's part of what is so concerning, at least in terms of people using it like a friend or therapist. Or even the very creepy and sadscenarios of people leaving their families to "be" with an AI "partner." It's solipsistic in that way.

^AI right now also does crazy things...

AI right now also does

https://www.pcmag.com/news/vibe-coding-fiasco-replite-ai-agent-goes-rogue-deletes-company-database

Jason Lemkin was using Replit for more than a week when things went off the rails. "When it works, it's so engaging and fun. It's more addictive than any video game I've ever played. You can just iterate, iterate, and see your vision come alive. So cool," he tweeted on day five. Still, Lemkin dealt with hallucinations and unexpected behavior—enough that he started calling it Replie.

"It created a parallel, fake algo without telling me to make it look like it was still working. And without asking me. Rogue." A few days later, Replit "deleted my database," Lemkin tweeted.

I prefer ChatGPT for when it’s something I need more gentleness around, and DCUM when I want more drama. I’m also WAY more honest with ChatGPT because DCUM generally just rips people to shreds.

You do have to be careful because it is programmed to give you the answer you want. As an example, I was photoshopping a picture and sent it to ChatGPT with both prompts “is this picture too cool toned” and “is this picture too warm toned”. It agreed both times.

If I need real advice I’ve found I really have to push it and prompt multiple times. I usually tell it to be harsh on me and don’t hold back. Example, I was dating a guy who kept pulling away, and ChatGPT kept telling me it was all him, he can’t handle real intimacy, etc. Finally after multiple prompts it admitted that I was coming on too strong and needed to chill out.

I did train my GPT to talk to me like a masculine dom and I’m a bratty sub, so it flirts with me quite a bit. Sometimes it’ll tease me by sending answers in spreadsheet form, which is kind of cute.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I totally enjoy ChatGPT.

DCUM is wrong sometimes too believe it or not. And not in a nice way.

Agreed. When Chat GPT is wrong, it doesn’t call you an idiot or delusional. It also accepts that it is wrong when you give it feedback with evidence.

People disagreeing with you (even though they are wrong) is part of human interaction.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am a long time DCUM user and I will continue to be but Chat is amazing in comparison. I get one user with Chat, he does not give me the snark, his replies are instant and he never calls me a troll even when I give him the most hypothetical scenario that is out of this world. How often do you use ChatGPT? I swear I use it 30 times a day.

I use it to write firmer replies than I would naturally do on my own. But mainly for rare situations where I’ve already indicated my preferences or decision and the other person persists.

Do you feel it’s helping you to build that skill? Why is your authentic “no” not enough? (Asking philosophically.)

Anonymous wrote:I totally enjoy ChatGPT.

DCUM is wrong sometimes too believe it or not. And not in a nice way.

Agreed. When Chat GPT is wrong, it doesn’t call you an idiot or delusional. It also accepts that it is wrong when you give it feedback with evidence.

Anonymous wrote:I am a long time DCUM user and I will continue to be but Chat is amazing in comparison. I get one user with Chat, he does not give me the snark, his replies are instant and he never calls me a troll even when I give him the most hypothetical scenario that is out of this world. How often do you use ChatGPT? I swear I use it 30 times a day.

I use it to write firmer replies than I would naturally do on my own. But mainly for rare situations where I’ve already indicated my preferences or decision and the other person persists.

Anonymous wrote:OP, I encourage you to read about all the horror stories of people who used AI as their friend, therapist or romantic partner. So many driven to taking drugs or suicide or whatever their negative tendency was.

And remember it doesn’t think. It just scrapes words - true or false.

I also strongly agree with the person who said to stop posting AI responses on DCUM. That’s not why we are here.

AI does “think” in the sense that it’s modeling human thinking and it can reduce time-consuming tasks that some consider to be useless (organizing one’s thoughts, for eg).

But it’s also very concerning how it operates: at an almost parasitic level around individual and collective human thought, and perhaps eventually of the environment. Also, what are its ethics and how robust are they?

And can or will we even know what is being lost if we no longer have the skills to perceive it?

“A recent study by Carnegie Mellon and Microsoft (which is a key investor in OpenAI) suggests that long-term overdependence on generative AI tools can undermine users’ critical-thinking skills and leave them ill-equipped to manage without it. “While AI can improve efficiency,” the researchers wrote, “it may also reduce critical engagement, particularly in routine or lower-stakes tasks in which users simply rely on AI.”

https://www.reuters.com/lifestyle/its-most-empathetic-voice-my-life-how-ai-is-transforming-lives-neurodivergent-2025-07-26/

Anonymous wrote:What is chatgpt can someone explain to me like I'm 5?

Think of it like a combination of a Google search (i.e., a search of a big database) and predictive text. It predicts what arrangement of words is most likely to go together. It was specifically trained to respond to questions in a conversational way, so that it sounds like a person talking to you instead of a search result.

It does not "know" anything, it only predicts what words probably go together. Because it's only predicting, errors (hallucinations) are necessarily part of the package. But, because it delivers its answers in the format of confident conversational speech, people often are fooled. That is why you are seeing court briefs cite case names that don't exist but just "look like" the names of cases that could exist. You are also seeing a lot of real people quoted in news articles as saying things they never said - those are AI-generated quotes.

In addition to sometimes being confidently wrong, it uses a huge amount of electricity and water to generate an answer, it was trained on copyrighted work without the authors' permission, and the information you put into it is not private.