Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Red flag #1... just so you know this is just the beginning of red flags. Many will say, how did you not see all the red flags when you are dating. Well, they didn't exist. But now he is already complaining that he isn't getting enough attention after the baby was born.
That is Red Flag #1... but you will bend over backward to accommodate him, it won't be enough, he will ask for more and more and more.
You will stupidly have baby #2. The red flags will be on fire.
Welcome to the hell.
Because she's baking desserts for other events. And whatever other trivial BS she deems more important, it doesn't appear to be the baby.
Lord forbid a woman have a life. We have a stage 5 clinger here.
Their baby is ONE MONTH OLD. In that time, they've been in multiple weddings, had family visit, and apparently she has been baking for small events. I would not have been able to do those things one month after having a baby. Maybe her "life" is focused on the wrong stuff. Building a family means moving beyond "being in a wedding" and "having work commitments" being what life is.
Well I guess HE should not have been a groomsman, and HE should have told his parents to NOT visit.
I agree! I also think that HE should plan the dates that HE is asking for. However, SHE sounds offended that he even asked to spend more time with her, and the previous comment implied that him wanting to makes him a stage 5 clinger and that she should live her life.
No she's offended that 2x a month was not reasonable for the 1st few months of the babies life.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Who is busy with work right now? Who is working when baby is less than 4 weeks old - how did you all divide up maternity/paternity leave or do you not have any?
Baby is 5 weeks now. He took 4 weeks and has been to work for a week. I got bored sitting around all day with a sleepy newborn and started doing my side baking at 3 weeks.
Anonymous wrote:Rather than use your mouth to disagree, you should have been using it for something else.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Who is busy with work right now? Who is working when baby is less than 4 weeks old - how did you all divide up maternity/paternity leave or do you not have any?
Baby is 5 weeks now. He took 4 weeks and has been to work for a week. I got bored sitting around all day with a sleepy newborn and started doing my side baking at 3 weeks.
Anonymous wrote:Wait so he has offered to find a babysitter and plan a date once a week for a 1-month-old?
Anonymous wrote:Who is busy with work right now? Who is working when baby is less than 4 weeks old - how did you all divide up maternity/paternity leave or do you not have any?
Anonymous wrote:I wish I did this. I was scared to find babysitters. I should have tried harder. Kids make your couple relationship wither. Even if both of you enjoy parenting.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Red flag #1... just so you know this is just the beginning of red flags. Many will say, how did you not see all the red flags when you are dating. Well, they didn't exist. But now he is already complaining that he isn't getting enough attention after the baby was born.
That is Red Flag #1... but you will bend over backward to accommodate him, it won't be enough, he will ask for more and more and more.
You will stupidly have baby #2. The red flags will be on fire.
Welcome to the hell.
Because she's baking desserts for other events. And whatever other trivial BS she deems more important, it doesn't appear to be the baby.
Lord forbid a woman have a life. We have a stage 5 clinger here.
Their baby is ONE MONTH OLD. In that time, they've been in multiple weddings, had family visit, and apparently she has been baking for small events. I would not have been able to do those things one month after having a baby. Maybe her "life" is focused on the wrong stuff. Building a family means moving beyond "being in a wedding" and "having work commitments" being what life is.
Well I guess HE should not have been a groomsman, and HE should have told his parents to NOT visit.
I agree! I also think that HE should plan the dates that HE is asking for. However, SHE sounds offended that he even asked to spend more time with her, and the previous comment implied that him wanting to makes him a stage 5 clinger and that she should live her life.
Anonymous wrote:I wish I did this. I was scared to find babysitters. I should have tried harder. Kids make your couple relationship wither. Even if both of you enjoy parenting.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Red flag #1... just so you know this is just the beginning of red flags. Many will say, how did you not see all the red flags when you are dating. Well, they didn't exist. But now he is already complaining that he isn't getting enough attention after the baby was born.
That is Red Flag #1... but you will bend over backward to accommodate him, it won't be enough, he will ask for more and more and more.
You will stupidly have baby #2. The red flags will be on fire.
Welcome to the hell.
Because she's baking desserts for other events. And whatever other trivial BS she deems more important, it doesn't appear to be the baby.
Lord forbid a woman have a life. We have a stage 5 clinger here.
Their baby is ONE MONTH OLD. In that time, they've been in multiple weddings, had family visit, and apparently she has been baking for small events. I would not have been able to do those things one month after having a baby. Maybe her "life" is focused on the wrong stuff. Building a family means moving beyond "being in a wedding" and "having work commitments" being what life is.
Well I guess HE should not have been a groomsman, and HE should have told his parents to NOT visit.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Red flag #1... just so you know this is just the beginning of red flags. Many will say, how did you not see all the red flags when you are dating. Well, they didn't exist. But now he is already complaining that he isn't getting enough attention after the baby was born.
That is Red Flag #1... but you will bend over backward to accommodate him, it won't be enough, he will ask for more and more and more.
You will stupidly have baby #2. The red flags will be on fire.
Welcome to the hell.
Because she's baking desserts for other events. And whatever other trivial BS she deems more important, it doesn't appear to be the baby.
Lord forbid a woman have a life. We have a stage 5 clinger here.
Their baby is ONE MONTH OLD. In that time, they've been in multiple weddings, had family visit, and apparently she has been baking for small events. I would not have been able to do those things one month after having a baby. Maybe her "life" is focused on the wrong stuff. Building a family means moving beyond "being in a wedding" and "having work commitments" being what life is.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Red flag #1... just so you know this is just the beginning of red flags. Many will say, how did you not see all the red flags when you are dating. Well, they didn't exist. But now he is already complaining that he isn't getting enough attention after the baby was born.
That is Red Flag #1... but you will bend over backward to accommodate him, it won't be enough, he will ask for more and more and more.
You will stupidly have baby #2. The red flags will be on fire.
Welcome to the hell.
Because she's baking desserts for other events. And whatever other trivial BS she deems more important, it doesn't appear to be the baby.
Lord forbid a woman have a life. We have a stage 5 clinger here.