Anonymous
Post 07/12/2025 23:58     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Some states have a way to report these concerns to the dmv. What state are you in?


No state has a process for a random person to report an elderly driver like this.
Maybe not a random person but in MD if a family member writes a letter of concern, they will require the driver to get tested. I know this from experience with my dad.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 21:26     Subject: Re:Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:I wouldn’t speak w/an elderly neighbor directly about this since it may cause some discord & I would have to see this person on a regular basis…..

I might however discuss this w/the neighbor’s adult child if I could wholeheartedly trust that they wouldn’t tell my neighbor that I approached them.


Yes this is why feeling a little hesitant to bring it up with neighbor's adult kid
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 20:04     Subject: Re:Have you ever asked your neighbor
I wouldn’t speak w/an elderly neighbor directly about this since it may cause some discord & I would have to see this person on a regular basis…..

I might however discuss this w/the neighbor’s adult child if I could wholeheartedly trust that they wouldn’t tell my neighbor that I approached them.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 19:17     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If the car behind them nearly hit them it's their fault.


No the neighbor did not turn when it was their turn. Neighbor did have a right turn signal to turn right into the driveway though. Saw this from another neighbor's yard.


Who cares? I'm sure you come across dumb teenagers and terrible sometimes psycho adult drivers on a literal daily basis.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 19:16     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:What you should be asking is how do we get this guy a job in Congress?


Seriously. Y'all care more about a random pensioner driving around the block once in a while than senile, half in the grave lawmakers and judges. RBG at the end was disgusting. Same for Feinstein and Biden.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 19:09     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
I have told their caretaker/children, yes, that they should not be driving. And guess what. They all actually listened to me and took the keys and car away.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 18:28     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:If the car behind them nearly hit them it's their fault.


No the neighbor did not turn when it was their turn. Neighbor did have a right turn signal to turn right into the driveway though. Saw this from another neighbor's yard.


Different poster here.
Even if it was the neighbor's turn, if another car hits them from behind, that other car's driver is at fault.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 18:04     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Isn't there a maximum driving age cutoff like there is a min age to get license? Should be retirement age since everything in this society revolves around work.


This isn't China.


After project 2025 we will be by 2026
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 18:01     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:who is "elderly" (few years from turning 80) or any other older person with whom you are not very close -- to not drive anymore? Guessing but does not seem this neighbor drives more than a few miles from their home. Witnessed a couple of questionable judgement calls (ex. delayed decision when turning that was a near miss with the car from behind). So, approach or don't approach neighbor? Or speak to the neighbor's adult child about this when they visit?


You are asking for trouble. Older people get, the less they care about prison, and the more impulsive they might be in reactions to you being a busy body. Think about that.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 15:26     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:If the car behind them nearly hit them it's their fault.


No the neighbor did not turn when it was their turn. Neighbor did have a right turn signal to turn right into the driveway though. Saw this from another neighbor's yard.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 14:53     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
If the car behind them nearly hit them it's their fault.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 13:25     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:who is "elderly" (few years from turning 80) or any other older person with whom you are not very close -- to not drive anymore? Guessing but does not seem this neighbor drives more than a few miles from their home. Witnessed a couple of questionable judgement calls (ex. delayed decision when turning that was a near miss with the car from behind). So, approach or don't approach neighbor? Or speak to the neighbor's adult child about this when they visit?


Who died and left you in charge? My FIL is 84 and has never had any kind of automobile accident, not even a dent. However, he has been the victim of a teenager who rammed him from behind and the kid was high on drugs. Another time a woman was on her phone and ran a red light running into passenger side door.

Mind your own effing business.


There it is! This post after a few pages. Gotta love this site. OP
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 13:22     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:who is "elderly" (few years from turning 80) or any other older person with whom you are not very close -- to not drive anymore? Guessing but does not seem this neighbor drives more than a few miles from their home. Witnessed a couple of questionable judgement calls (ex. delayed decision when turning that was a near miss with the car from behind). So, approach or don't approach neighbor? Or speak to the neighbor's adult child about this when they visit?


Who died and left you in charge? My FIL is 84 and has never had any kind of automobile accident, not even a dent. However, he has been the victim of a teenager who rammed him from behind and the kid was high on drugs. Another time a woman was on her phone and ran a red light running into passenger side door.

Mind your own effing business.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 10:51     Subject: Re:Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:high schoolers speeding through the neighborhood. should I talk to them about it?


Take note of the car (color, make, model) and license number if you can. If you notice they always go through at a certain time of the day, tell the police. "Around 3:15 pm each weekday, the blue Jeep wrangler speeds down X street..." If they can, they might send an office there around that time to check it out.
Anonymous
Post 07/11/2025 10:48     Subject: Have you ever asked your neighbor
Anonymous wrote:What you should be asking is how do we get this guy a job in Congress?

or president