Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 19:02     Subject: Wife and reality
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you agreed to do something/ a reasonable person thought you would, and you didn't do it, but left out that part. Stay home?


No the case I think she feels like 5 million dollar salaries are handed to everyone.


R u making the case that ur are Op here b1tching on DCUM, ignoring your kids watching porn online, and working oh so hard at home office?

How oxymoronic.


I am OP.
Stereotype much?

I don’t ignore my kid. And I do work hard. Why would you think I don’t work hard just because I work from home?
Why would I spend all day watching porn? I wouldn’t have a job if I did that.


I took that as your kid is sitting at home in the internet doing whatever they wish.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 19:02     Subject: Wife and reality
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you agreed to do something/ a reasonable person thought you would, and you didn't do it, but left out that part. Stay home?


No the case I think she feels like 5 million dollar salaries are handed to everyone.


R u making the case that ur are Op here b1tching on DCUM, ignoring your kids watching porn online, and working oh so hard at home office?

How oxymoronic.


I am OP.
Stereotype much?

I don’t ignore my kid. And I do work hard. Why would you think I don’t work hard just because I work from home?
Why would I spend all day watching porn? I wouldn’t have a job if I did that.

Are you female?
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 19:01     Subject: Wife and reality
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you agreed to do something/ a reasonable person thought you would, and you didn't do it, but left out that part. Stay home?


No the case I think she feels like 5 million dollar salaries are handed to everyone.


R u making the case that ur are Op here b1tching on DCUM, ignoring your kids watching porn online, and working oh so hard at home office?

How oxymoronic.


I am OP.
Stereotype much?

I don’t ignore my kid. And I do work hard. Why would you think I don’t work hard just because I work from home?
Why would I spend all day watching porn? I wouldn’t have a job if I did that.


Besides DCUM super dad troll posts are more fun.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 18:57     Subject: Re:Wife and reality
Anonymous wrote:It is kind of wrong. My kids are the same age, and it’s hard to figure out what to do with them. They are too old for most camps or to have a babysitter, but too young to really manage their free time well.

You can empathize with her and not take it personally, OP.


Again it is about her feeling like she should not be working. The kid is fine and stays busy.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 18:38     Subject: Re:Wife and reality
It is kind of wrong. My kids are the same age, and it’s hard to figure out what to do with them. They are too old for most camps or to have a babysitter, but too young to really manage their free time well.

You can empathize with her and not take it personally, OP.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 18:37     Subject: Wife and reality
Most women who grew up UMC end up angry if they have to continue working. There eventually ends up being some resentment. Some women here will chime in that they love their job and absolutely would do it over staying at home and enjoying life, but they are either outliers or in denial.

Really it’s the system that we are angry about. Needing and expecting to work but not having an equal partner at home.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 18:36     Subject: Wife and reality
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like she is mad that the kid is wasting time at home sitting around. How about camp?


Disagree. I think she is just mad she is not a SAHM and summer is the only time she can argue the value in that with a straight face.


If she makes less than 20% of their HHI and she wants to be a SAHM, then they should talk about it.


I have offered, we could afford it. But we can't afford it and the beach house, and the boat and the nice vacations etc.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 18:32     Subject: Wife and reality
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like she is mad that the kid is wasting time at home sitting around. How about camp?


Disagree. I think she is just mad she is not a SAHM and summer is the only time she can argue the value in that with a straight face.


If she makes less than 20% of their HHI and she wants to be a SAHM, then they should talk about it.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 17:45     Subject: Wife and reality
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Sounds like you agreed to do something/ a reasonable person thought you would, and you didn't do it, but left out that part. Stay home?


No the case I think she feels like 5 million dollar salaries are handed to everyone.


R u making the case that ur are Op here b1tching on DCUM, ignoring your kids watching porn online, and working oh so hard at home office?

How oxymoronic.


I am OP.
Stereotype much?

I don’t ignore my kid. And I do work hard. Why would you think I don’t work hard just because I work from home?
Why would I spend all day watching porn? I wouldn’t have a job if I did that.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 17:39     Subject: Wife and reality
When did she start acting this way?
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 17:35     Subject: Wife and reality
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:What did you do or help do? For eg:

Select and sign up for sleep away or day camps?

Pick some good summer school programs?

Plan some meaningful family or kid travel?

Find good sports or fitness programs for them each week?

Help them plan and make healthy meals if home?

Set school or health or athletic goals and steps towards achieving them?

Find out which friends or relatives are in town when so they can socialize?


To reiterate it is not about what the DC is doing this summer it is that she is angry she is not home with DC.

But to answer your condescending questions.

I make healthy meals daily.

DC has a trainer two days a week.

I plan all the travel. We go out on our boat almost every weekend and DC always brings a friend.

DC has a job and is also doing a class this summer.



Yassss!!! 🔥
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 17:31     Subject: Wife and reality
Anonymous wrote:What did you do or help do? For eg:

Select and sign up for sleep away or day camps?

Pick some good summer school programs?

Plan some meaningful family or kid travel?

Find good sports or fitness programs for them each week?

Help them plan and make healthy meals if home?

Set school or health or athletic goals and steps towards achieving them?

Find out which friends or relatives are in town when so they can socialize?


To reiterate it is not about what the DC is doing this summer it is that she is angry she is not home with DC.

But to answer your condescending questions.

I make healthy meals daily.

DC has a trainer two days a week.

I plan all the travel. We go out on our boat almost every weekend and DC always brings a friend.

DC has a job and is also doing a class this summer.
Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 17:25     Subject: Wife and reality
She’s annoyed she’s not a SAHM and or doesn’t WFM.


Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 17:20     Subject: Re:Wife and reality
Not really understanding.

What is the young teen doing during the day? If you WFH are you driving her somewhere at times or keeping an eye out as needed? Or is she doing camp/activities? Is something not happening that should be?

Anonymous
Post 06/24/2025 17:16     Subject: Wife and reality
What is the actual problem OP?