Anonymous wrote: Become a thing? It’s so grating.

Your a big meanie

My gen z colleagues say it all the time.

Actual quotes from this week:
"Hey bestie, can I talk to you about a contract?"
"I know you're a water girlie but try this prebiotic soda..."

I don't like mama. But the only person who says it is one of my nearest and dearest, so I let it slide.

There are some cutesy abbreviates I hate (hubby) and some I use myself (comfy).

*shrug*

Never heard this. Am I too old? Who does this?

It’s so annoying and juvenile. I saw some overweight woman on twitter calling herself a ‘donut girly’ yesterday and bragging about trying multiple donut places in a day.

While we’re on the topic…I don’t like when ppl say “veggies”. That sounds so stupid to me. Just say vegetables, like an adult.

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Anonymous wrote:Cringe. It reminds me of people saying " normies" + " littles". Just " use your words".

Can we add to that the trend of grown adults saying things like "comfy" and "yummy"? You sound like toddlers.

That’s a lie. Those sound fine.

And you sound really uptight PP.

Plus one.

The PP sounds yucky.

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Anonymous wrote:Cringe. It reminds me of people saying " normies" + " littles". Just " use your words".

Can we add to that the trend of grown adults saying things like "comfy" and "yummy"? You sound like toddlers.

That’s a lie. Those sound fine.

And you sound really uptight PP.

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Anonymous wrote:Cringe. It reminds me of people saying " normies" + " littles". Just " use your words".

Can we add to that the trend of grown adults saying things like "comfy" and "yummy"? You sound like toddlers.

Hmm, I don't love those words but they don't annoy me the way "girlies" or "littles" do. If another mom used the words "comfy" or "yummy" in conversation with me, I might find it a little weird but it wouldn't annoy me. But when people refer to kids as "littles" or grown women as "girlies" to me, I get really annoyed.

I think the distinction for me is the cutesy nature of the terms. Littles and girlies are social media trends. Whereas comfy and yummy are just slang terms that have been around time. When I think of littles/girlies, I think of vapid 20 somethings on Instagram adopting these cutesy voices and using lots of hashtags. When I think of comfy/yummy, I think of my 70+ mom putting on pajamas at 6pm and having ice cream after dinner. It's not cool but it's not really cringe to me.

Anonymous wrote:All of this seemed of start along with the advent of Instagram and influencers. Along with "boss babe"

or "boss b1tch". I almost jumped out of my skin when someone called me that, even though they seemed to think it was a compliment.

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Anonymous wrote:It does not offend me but when I encounter a woman who talks like this, I do assume she is insecure and doesn't take herself seriously as an adult.

Seriously? That's intense. I'm 56 and I could care less. I wouldn't judge it's just not my thing.

Haha you are literally judging the poster you are responding to. Everyone judges or draws conclusions about people based on how they talk and act. That's just life.

Anonymous wrote:Cringe. It reminds me of people saying " normies" + " littles". Just " use your words".

Can we add to that the trend of grown adults saying things like "comfy" and "yummy"? You sound like toddlers.

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Anonymous wrote: Become a thing? It’s so grating.

It's a class thing.

As in 'white woman upper middle class'?

Hubs, adorbs, Visi, Vandy - it's all saccharine sweet and cute to those who use it.

The extended adolescence of this generation has been pretty widely documented.

Anonymous wrote:They're the same women who use babytalk regularly. Vacay, mani/pedi, hubby, etc.

It’s just how people talk now; that’s all