i hate to agree with dcum but it does sound like the wrong vibe for this sort of thing. too dressy is how it sounds to me. lovely but too much. anyway who cares - hope it’s great and you have a good time!

I think your dress sounds nice -- but definitely report back!

It will be fine. I went to a party at the Union Club recently. It’s not the most fashion forward crowd, much more traditional. The women were in a wide range of dresses from vintage long dresses to skirts and tops. Wear jewelry - people definitely had expensive yet understated bling.