Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My kids are fully engaged and known at school. They are, not me. It's their turf. As an example: if I happen to walk the hall and meet school personnel, I hear, "oh you're Mary's Mom!".
My kid does not hear, "oh you're Jane's Daughter."
See the difference?
Are you a teacher at the school?
Anonymous wrote:My kids are fully engaged and known at school. They are, not me. It's their turf. As an example: if I happen to walk the hall and meet school personnel, I hear, "oh you're Mary's Mom!".
My kid does not hear, "oh you're Jane's Daughter."
See the difference?
Anonymous wrote:My kid has been getting harassed/bullied at school this year, and she's handling it in such a mature, awesome way. We are moving her to a new school next year, but she's just blown me away with how emotionally mature she's been about it.
She just has an amazing attitude about it even when she's dealing with really aggressive behavior -- she'll cry and get upset, but then she'll talk through how their behavior isn't really about her, it's about them. Or she'll make these very smart observations like "they think they are being grown up by talking like this and making fun of me for being a 'baby', but that's not really how grown ups talk -- they're just pretending." She only has one friend at school and sometimes that friend joins in with the bullying, and DD will even say "yeah it hurts my feelings but I know she's doing it because she doesn't want them to turn on her."
I would never in a million years wish this experience on other kids or their parents, but I have to say it's shown me what a strong, intelligent, emotionally aware person my DD is.
Anonymous wrote:My kid has been getting harassed/bullied at school this year, and she's handling it in such a mature, awesome way. We are moving her to a new school next year, but she's just blown me away with how emotionally mature she's been about it.
She just has an amazing attitude about it even when she's dealing with really aggressive behavior -- she'll cry and get upset, but then she'll talk through how their behavior isn't really about her, it's about them. Or she'll make these very smart observations like "they think they are being grown up by talking like this and making fun of me for being a 'baby', but that's not really how grown ups talk -- they're just pretending." She only has one friend at school and sometimes that friend joins in with the bullying, and DD will even say "yeah it hurts my feelings but I know she's doing it because she doesn't want them to turn on her."
I would never in a million years wish this experience on other kids or their parents, but I have to say it's shown me what a strong, intelligent, emotionally aware person my DD is.
Anonymous wrote:My extremely dyslexic adult child (could not read in 3rd grade)… just got a job as a writer.