The real question is why do you care to try and figure it out?

Here is the explanation you requested, OP: Ex's relationship with new girlfriend is none of your business.

This is so ugly, petty, and small of you. You sound totally hung up on your ex still, which is sad for you and pathetic behavior from an adult. He's your ex, probably for a good reason, and you need to move on with your life. The easiest way to do that is to mind your own business and stop microanalyzing his new gf/life/goings on.

Get a better hobby.

Sounds like his new GF thinks he is quite a catch….w/his pocketbook in tow!

Anonymous wrote:I mean - is she attractive? Presumably she's with your ex because he's the best she can get. Whatever unattractive traits he has, she must have parallel ones.

OP married and had 4 kids with this guy. Why is she surprised another woman would also want to be with him?

I mean - is she attractive? Presumably she's with your ex because he's the best she can get. Whatever unattractive traits he has, she must have parallel ones.

Who care- he’s your ex. Mind yo’ bidness! You don’t get a say- your ship has passed m’am.
Get over it. Sounds like you’re jealous.

He is plenty tall when standing on his wallet

Anonymous wrote:She is early 30s, he is mid 40s. She is divorced and has 2 kids, he has 4 kids. He is 5'7", balding, and controlling. While he had a nice face when he was younger, at this point he looks pretty unattractive. He does make $350,000 per year. This can only be for the money, right? I can't imagine truly falling for him at this stage in his life. I'm worried about what will happen to the kids if she's a gold digger.

Just dump him.

Anonymous wrote:
Why do you care? What you don't find attractive someone else sure will.

Focus on making sure college is funded for those four kids and MYOB Ma'am

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