Absolutely not normal OP. Sounds like he is getting a very special massage.

My husband regularly trims his twig and berries, usually before he showers. No mess. No fuss. I prefer the trimmed look, makes playtime more fun. The fact that your husband shaves before a massage at the massage therapists home would be concerning. Is the massage therapist a man or woman? Sounds as though your spouse is gagging something more than a massage

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Anonymous wrote:I dont know of any man who shaves his pubes.
This has got to be a troll

Yikes! Your DH must be disgusting to be intimate with then.

Wait ….no but is this an actual thing that straight men do now??
I’m early 50s and my DH has never done this. And no, I do not think my DH is disgusting for not shaving his pubic hair to look like a pre-pubescent male.
So this must be some weird millennial trend that has been normalized?

It’s one of the fastest growing segment of retail beautt/health. Most aren’t shaving bald. Hence it commonly referred to as manscaping.

Where is this "massage place" Annandale?

Anonymous wrote:No one should be getting near his pubic hair for a massage, or even seeing it.

He's not going for a massage. Or if he is, it has a "happy ending." Unlikely that he would trim up for that, though. More likely an AP out there, or a fave escort or something.

I'm sorry.

Yeah, I mean you don’t trim up for a happy ending, something you’re paying for and why do you care what the service provider thinks? You transfer someone who you care to impress/be respectful to. Unless the masseuse said that’s the only way she’ll give a BJ.

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Anonymous wrote:I dont know of any man who shaves his pubes.
This has got to be a troll

Why would I make this up? Sometimes he get them waxed

Is the masseuse a man?

I wondered this, too.

No one should be getting near his pubic hair for a massage, or even seeing it.

He's not going for a massage. Or if he is, it has a "happy ending." Unlikely that he would trim up for that, though. More likely an AP out there, or a fave escort or something.

I'm sorry.

No ok.

How much is he paying for these weekly "massages?"

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Anonymous wrote:I dont know of any man who shaves his pubes.
This has got to be a troll

Man here. I trim mine every few weeks. Not making anything bald, but reducing the jungle to a golf course.

This thread is making me laugh!

Anonymous wrote:Uh no. Weekly massages at someone’s house? That’s a hooker.

+1 wow op. Come on.

Maybe he does regular grooming and that just happened to be the day. My DH does maintenance grooming every 7-10 days.

Anonymous wrote:I think the fact that the only way you know about his pubes is from the toilet is an important detail.

Ha! I thought the same thing!

If this is your only clue, you guys are missing out on standard activities.

Which may make it more likely he is seeking those activities elsewhere.

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Anonymous wrote:Trimming is normal, but shaving? That’s a bit yuck. Is that what por* actors do? It’s been a while since I’ve watched. Maybe that’s why it’s become sexualized but ew.

Do you trust your DH or not, OP?

I am a DH and I "shave" mine but it might not be what you're thinking. I use an electric razor (like a barbershop) that allows for different levels. I'm not "shaving" completely bald but I am shaving to get a trimmed appearance. I do it primarily to give DW an obstruction free playground

That’s very kind of you.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I dont know of any man who shaves his pubes.
This has got to be a troll

Yikes! Your DH must be disgusting to be intimate with then.

Wait ….no but is this an actual thing that straight men do now??
I’m early 50s and my DH has never done this. And no, I do not think my DH is disgusting for not shaving his pubic hair to look like a pre-pubescent male.
So this must be some weird millennial trend that has been normalized?

They dont necessarily mean they are shaving it ALL off. Your DH has never trimmed/cleaned up?? I’m late 40s and this is NOT a new trend!