Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This can’t be true. If it is, she could have received the financial assets she’s entitled to, but she doesn’t want to let you know.

Or maybe she spent the last 20 years squirreling away money he’s not aware of.

She got married at age 20?

Op here. Her lawyer said the same thing that she could be entitled to about $20k/year of spousal support but didn’t take it. She was married in late teens.

Only thing I could think of is that she didn’t want to deal with the abusive ex.

Why do you care? She'd have to pay taxes on it and it might not have been worth it.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This can’t be true. If it is, she could have received the financial assets she’s entitled to, but she doesn’t want to let you know.

Or maybe she spent the last 20 years squirreling away money he’s not aware of.

She got married at age 20?

Op here. Her lawyer said the same thing that she could be entitled to about $20k/year of spousal support but didn’t take it. She was married in late teens.

Only thing I could think of is that she didn’t want to deal with the abusive ex.

Unclench Sir

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This can’t be true. If it is, she could have received the financial assets she’s entitled to, but she doesn’t want to let you know.

Or maybe she spent the last 20 years squirreling away money he’s not aware of.

She got married at age 20?

Op here. Her lawyer said the same thing that she could be entitled to about $20k/year of spousal support but didn’t take it. She was married in late teens.

Only thing I could think of is that she didn’t want to deal with the abusive ex.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:This can’t be true. If it is, she could have received the financial assets she’s entitled to, but she doesn’t want to let you know.

Or maybe she spent the last 20 years squirreling away money he’s not aware of.

She got married at age 20?

Op here. Her lawyer said the same thing that she could be entitled to about $20k/year of spousal support but didn’t take it. She was married in late teens.

Only thing I could think of is that she didn’t want to deal with the abusive ex.

Anonymous wrote:This can’t be true. If it is, she could have received the financial assets she’s entitled to, but she doesn’t want to let you know.

Or maybe she spent the last 20 years squirreling away money he’s not aware of.

She got married at age 20?

Anonymous wrote:Is she "sort of broke" and a "little overweight"? Cause we talked to her yesterday.

Anonymous wrote:Op here. I asked the question gently and the response was I don’t care about his money. Kinda like karma part. She’s somewhat materialistic and likes certain things and that surprises me when I see her struggling with paying for them.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she doesn’t want anything she didn’t earn herself or associated with him after only two years of marriage.


Is that or her salary the deal breaker for you ?

+1

OP is annoyed he doesn’t get the fruits of a sweet divorce settlement.

Two years of marriage with no kids wouldn’t result in a king’s ransom anyway.

Hey OP—how much do you make? He won’t answer.

Anonymous wrote:My gf, 42, didn’t take anything in previous divorce from her ex husband with whom she was married for almost 2 years. He was the high earner but it seems odd to me that she wouldn’t take her portion in house, pension, savings, 401k, spousal support, etc. Her lawyer insisted that she should ask for spousal support but she decided against it. I asked her and she replied that she don’t want to do anything with his money. Her income is $60-70k.

Anonymous wrote:They were married for less than two years. If they split that quickly and she refused financial support, he was probably abusive on some level and she wanted to cut ties completely.

I’d respect her decision and leave it alone.

Anonymous wrote:Maybe she doesn’t want anything she didn’t earn herself or associated with him after only two years of marriage.


Is that or her salary the deal breaker for you ?