Anonymous[b wrote:]Is it possible that these are the kids with the truly off-the-charts recommendations? [/b]

After all, the same recommendations go to all the schools. My sense is that there are a few kids every year who are top of the class AND have genuinely strong and real relationships with the teachers and counselor who write their recommendations. So they’re a completely different level of effusive, specific, and authentic that most high-stats kids have.

Basically, in a world where everything else can be curated, fished, or faked, there’s still one piece of the application that has the potential to be truly genuine and therefore illuminating.

Anonymous wrote:The system has become geared to favor big personalities, braggarts, and showoffs. It works against smart, genuine, hardworking but quiet leaders who do the actual work that needs to be done (instead of the made up work that is fun and glamorous and showy).

The smart and well rounded kids in my kids class (2025) have the worst results. The athletes, legacies, and most cultivated (with the pushiest parents) are doing the best. It is disheartening.

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible that these are the kids with the truly off-the-charts recommendations?

After all, the same recommendations go to all the schools. My sense is that there are a few kids every year who are top of the class AND have genuinely strong and real relationships with the teachers and counselor who write their recommendations. So they’re a completely different level of effusive, specific, and authentic that most high-stats kids have.

Basically, in a world where everything else can be curated, fished, or faked, there’s still one piece of the application that has the potential to be truly genuine and therefore illuminating.

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Anonymous wrote:We had an interesting one.
DS applied to 3 Ivies RD last year and no school on ED, only EA.
He was accepted to 1 of the Ivies, 2 SLACs and LSE.

Come Jan 15, I get a call from one of our great friends from college (same Ivy) whom we had lost contact 5 years ago. He tells us his wife is in admissions at this same Ivy and she came across our kid’s name. We reconnected, etc and come Ivy day, he gets his acceptance.

How does this story even belong on this thread. So your DC got in because you knew the AO, there was nothing special about their app.

Anonymous wrote:Is it possible that these are the kids with the truly off-the-charts recommendations?

After all, the same recommendations go to all the schools. My sense is that there are a few kids every year who are top of the class AND have genuinely strong and real relationships with the teachers and counselor who write their recommendations. So they’re on a completely different level of effusive, specific, and authentic that most high-stats kids have.

Basically, in a world where everything else can be curated, fished, or faked, there’s still one piece of the application that has the potential to be truly genuine and therefore illuminating.

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Anonymous wrote:My nephew didnt have the high stats thrown around here. He had a 1440 SAT, 3.7 GPA. Interesting/different EC and amazing essays. He is a hell of a writer. I have not yet met a person who has read his common app essay who didnt cry. Showing smarts with vulnerability just pushed his application to the top. He is finishing up his first year at Princeton.

How did your nephew like Princeton?

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Anonymous wrote:We learned after first kid (2023) that you want/need your complete application to tell a whole story not just disjointed pieces that don’t connect. It needs to be authentic to the student - please please please let them write their own essays - and have points that echo across the essay(s), activities, and academic interests. Second kid’s package was much tighter and they overperformed this cycle.

All of this.
Tight integrated memorable story without repetition-where each part of the application reveals something new but interrelated to the kid’s applicant persona/ narrative/ tagline.

It’s ok to okay to omit things in the EC list if it doesn’t complement the rest of the story.

Agreed.

These poor kids ... they've been sold on so many passing trends. Could it be that their genuine selves, just a little edited, are the way to go?

My kid has a medical condition that isn't visible and requires significant effort to mitigate. Too stats, but condition has somewhat impacted EC strength to date.

Resilience that this kid exhibits behind the scenes is extraordinary but we always see advice not to talk about medical or LDs in apps. Are the only vulnerability stories that are acceptable cultural/family/financial struggles?

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Anonymous wrote:We learned after first kid (2023) that you want/need your complete application to tell a whole story not just disjointed pieces that don’t connect. It needs to be authentic to the student - please please please let them write their own essays - and have points that echo across the essay(s), activities, and academic interests. Second kid’s package was much tighter and they overperformed this cycle.

All of this.
Tight integrated memorable story without repetition-where each part of the application reveals something new but interrelated to the kid’s applicant persona/ narrative/ tagline.

It’s ok to okay to omit things in the EC list if it doesn’t complement the rest of the story.

Agreed.

These poor kids ... they've been sold on so many passing trends. Could it be that their genuine selves, just a little edited, are the way to go?

Anonymous wrote:My nephew didnt have the high stats thrown around here. He had a 1440 SAT, 3.7 GPA. Interesting/different EC and amazing essays. He is a hell of a writer. I have not yet met a person who has read his common app essay who didnt cry. Showing smarts with vulnerability just pushed his application to the top. He is finishing up his first year at Princeton.

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Anonymous wrote:My nephew didnt have the high stats thrown around here. He had a 1440 SAT, 3.7 GPA. Interesting/different EC and amazing essays. He is a hell of a writer. I have not yet met a person who has read his common app essay who didnt cry. Showing smarts with vulnerability just pushed his application to the top. He is finishing up his first year at Princeton.

It’s that vulnerability that makes you cry or catch your throat. I have read one of those common app essays this cycle. That applicant is getting in everywhere.

I am sure your kids are great so no issue there. But do we really want schools filled with people with sob stories? Then people wonder why these campuses have so many students with mental health issues.

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Anonymous wrote:We learned after first kid (2023) that you want/need your complete application to tell a whole story not just disjointed pieces that don’t connect. It needs to be authentic to the student - please please please let them write their own essays - and have points that echo across the essay(s), activities, and academic interests. Second kid’s package was much tighter and they overperformed this cycle.

All of this.
Tight integrated memorable story without repetition-where each part of the application reveals something new but interrelated to the kid’s applicant persona/ narrative/ tagline.

It’s ok to okay to omit things in the EC list if it doesn’t complement the rest of the story.

Anonymous wrote:We learned after first kid (2023) that you want/need your complete application to tell a whole story not just disjointed pieces that don’t connect. It needs to be authentic to the student - please please please let them write their own essays - and have points that echo across the essay(s), activities, and academic interests. Second kid’s package was much tighter and they overperformed this cycle.

Anonymous wrote:Yes, some do, they just have an “it” quality. I tend to think it’s apps that are so authentic and genuine and consistent in voice across the application you can’t help but feel like you know them. Kind of like the person that can make anyone feel like they are the only thing that matters when you speak to them.