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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He is the SRO, I do not have attorney and do not know where to go from here. Could I just file a report with another cop?

No you filed a report already.
You can’t file multiple reports for the same thing.

It doesn't sound like the report was ever filed. I think the SRO talked her out of it.

My daughter initially reported it to them and he kept telling her they would file it and see what happens next, I went to formally sign the paper work then he said no. They tormented her mentally.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He is the SRO, I do not have attorney and do not know where to go from here. Could I just file a report with another cop?

No you filed a report already.
You can’t file multiple reports for the same thing.

It doesn't sound like the report was ever filed. I think the SRO talked her out of it.

Anonymous wrote:Here's the reality of what happened. I am not saying I agree with this, but I have a feeling this is what happened. The guy touched your daughter's thigh. You go to make report. SRO watches video. In his head "this isn't a big deal. The DA isn't going to press charges for him putting his hand on her thigh. I really don't want to have to do all this paperwork". You come to sign the report, he talks you out of it. School suspends kid.

You can go down to the police station and make another report. DA may still not prosecute but at least you can say you've filed the report.

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Anonymous wrote:How old is your dd? What is the reason the cops don't want to press charges? Have you considered going above the cops head to the DA?

That doesn’t make sense. Are you saying the cop wouldn’t write a report? Get a lawyer, file a police report. Only a prosecutor can keep you from pressing charges. They can decline to prosecute or strike a plea deal, but that’s different.

This is a question for the OP. OP, did the cops write a report and the DA refused the case? Can you explain further?

He let us file a police report and said that he needed a signature but when we came back for that he said he would not have probable cause.

but there is video!

this is bs

I wonder if the police officer or someone in the school district is family members with the boy

did they at least say he's not allowed to ride the bus anymore??

op, I know someone whose son engaged in consensual hooking up with his girlfriend. both the girlfriend and her parents agree it was consensual and have not pressed charges. the same thing happened a year ago and the school is making the boy go to an alternative school for the rest of the school year. both sets of parents were shown the video.

ask to see the video. subtly take out your camera and video it while they are showing it to you.

No one is family with him. He was shortly suspended for a few days but that was all. I saw it but they would not let me have it.

This seems appropriate. A suspension is a big deal. What do you want to happen?

He's regularly suspended and has been suspended three times since. I need proper justice.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He is the SRO, I do not have attorney and do not know where to go from here. Could I just file a report with another cop?

No you filed a report already.
You can’t file multiple reports for the same thing.

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Anonymous wrote:How old is your dd? What is the reason the cops don't want to press charges? Have you considered going above the cops head to the DA?

That doesn’t make sense. Are you saying the cop wouldn’t write a report? Get a lawyer, file a police report. Only a prosecutor can keep you from pressing charges. They can decline to prosecute or strike a plea deal, but that’s different.

This is a question for the OP. OP, did the cops write a report and the DA refused the case? Can you explain further?

He let us file a police report and said that he needed a signature but when we came back for that he said he would not have probable cause.

but there is video!

this is bs

I wonder if the police officer or someone in the school district is family members with the boy

did they at least say he's not allowed to ride the bus anymore??

op, I know someone whose son engaged in consensual hooking up with his girlfriend. both the girlfriend and her parents agree it was consensual and have not pressed charges. the same thing happened a year ago and the school is making the boy go to an alternative school for the rest of the school year. both sets of parents were shown the video.

ask to see the video. subtly take out your camera and video it while they are showing it to you.

No one is family with him. He was shortly suspended for a few days but that was all. I saw it but they would not let me have it.

This seems appropriate. A suspension is a big deal. What do you want to happen?

Anonymous wrote:OP here. He is the SRO, I do not have attorney and do not know where to go from here. Could I just file a report with another cop?

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Anonymous wrote:How old is your dd? What is the reason the cops don't want to press charges? Have you considered going above the cops head to the DA?

That doesn’t make sense. Are you saying the cop wouldn’t write a report? Get a lawyer, file a police report. Only a prosecutor can keep you from pressing charges. They can decline to prosecute or strike a plea deal, but that’s different.

This is a question for the OP. OP, did the cops write a report and the DA refused the case? Can you explain further?

He let us file a police report and said that he needed a signature but when we came back for that he said he would not have probable cause.

but there is video!

this is bs

I wonder if the police officer or someone in the school district is family members with the boy

did they at least say he's not allowed to ride the bus anymore??

op, I know someone whose son engaged in consensual hooking up with his girlfriend. both the girlfriend and her parents agree it was consensual and have not pressed charges. the same thing happened a year ago and the school is making the boy go to an alternative school for the rest of the school year. both sets of parents were shown the video.

ask to see the video. subtly take out your camera and video it while they are showing it to you.

No one is family with him. He was shortly suspended for a few days but that was all. I saw it but they would not let me have it.

Anonymous wrote:The kid who did it is connected to the police. Get a lawyer.

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Anonymous wrote:OP here. He is the SRO, I do not have attorney and do not know where to go from here. Could I just file a report with another cop?

You definitely can. Though their first step will most likely be to check in with the SRO.

Why did the SRO not feel there was probable cause to charge? I know you don’t want to give too many details probably, but was the video not clear/detailed enough? Or the offense was not considered serious enough?

The video was clear, I believe he just doesn't want to go through paper work and that stuff if the DA refuses to prosecute, but at least give us the right to file a report. It was a light touch for a few seconds on the thigh. He tried to gaslight us into saying it is not serious enough but I know if I filed it with another cop they most likely would let us. It's the video I worry about.

What are you worried about with the video? Just help her file the report. If the DA feels there is nothing to go forward with to prosecute, go from there. I'm the PP who was groped (hand up the skirt and touched quite roughly through my underwear). Ultimately, I just left it alone after that. Didn't feel like going through the headache of finding a lawyer and trying to push for something to happen.