Anonymous wrote:The notion of a “push present” is extremely basic, so I think it would be just fine, OP.

+1 I can't stop laughing at this question

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Anonymous wrote:It’s SO comfortable, especially in the summer. I wear mine instead of my wedding band when I work out or just want a simpler look. It’s definitely a classic.

Also, what’s wrong with presents to commemorate a significant milestone? So many posters mocking push presents are so dreary.

Your baby is the present.

Along with the incontinence, stretch marks and saggy boobs. Enjoy.

Why would you want the father to give you a little special token of appreciation for growing a human being inside you body and then the actual process of birth. Women disparaging other women are so over done.

Did this idea come from the father? Nope. This is just a made up thing by women to get stuff.

Anonymous wrote:I think the vintage ones are nicer. I wouldn't be upset if I got this version with diamonds:

Definitely better than the Cartier ad

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I cringe every time I hear the phrase push present, OP. It's disgusting.
Also that piece of jewelry has been on the list of overplayed items for multiple decades.

Same. “Baby bauble” has a nicer sound and connotation.

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I cringe every time I hear the phrase push present, OP. It's disgusting.
Also that piece of jewelry has been on the list of overplayed items for multiple decades.

Yep

I have one and I love it.
Don’t overthink it, OP.

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Anonymous wrote:Stop doing push presents - not a thing

This.

Yes it is and has been for a long while.

It's stupid

It's too overdone. A better present--Mommy Makeover in a year or two after the birth.

I don't have an opinion on the ring because it's not my style, but my husband got me a special necklace at the end of my pregnancy and I wear it every day because it reminds me of my daughter and that special time. Which is to say, if you like the ring, go for it!

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Anonymous wrote:It’s SO comfortable, especially in the summer. I wear mine instead of my wedding band when I work out or just want a simpler look. It’s definitely a classic.

Also, what’s wrong with presents to commemorate a significant milestone? So many posters mocking push presents are so dreary.

Your baby is the present.

Along with the incontinence, stretch marks and saggy boobs. Enjoy.

Why would you want the father to give you a little special token of appreciation for growing a human being inside you body and then the actual process of birth. Women disparaging other women are so over done.

Even the small ones are too big. I would like the pave small one if it was a little smaller.

I think the vintage ones are nicer. I wouldn't be upset if I got this version with diamonds:

OP, you must be new to DCUM - sorry you've gotten so many mean responses. Whenever someone uses the phrase "push present," the pitchforks come out. And you mentioned Cartier? Well, now DCUMers will put a pitchfork in *both* hands. Don't share that you have blonde hair, wear LLL, and drive a white luxury SUV. You wouldn't make it out alive.

Anyway, congratulations on the new baby! I received push presents with both my kids (yes, including a Cartier Love) and I love the idea of a piece of jewelry to commemorate those exciting life milestones. I've never tried on the Trinity, but I do think it's stunning. I would probably go for the thinner bands, as I think that version tends to look really elegant.

Best wishes with your search!

Anonymous wrote:Looked it up. It’s ugly. Especially the name on the ring. Like your jewelry should be so exquisitely done that it’s immediately recognizable as authentic on appearance alone and not with a name plastered on the outside of the ring. Inside a mark is fine for me but outside is 🥴

I say that but I love a push present or recognition for what mothers do but that thing is hideous. A better question would have been to ask everyone else what they have their eyes on and set a budget but this ain’t it

Looked it up. It’s ugly. Especially the name on the ring. Like your jewelry should be so exquisitely done that it’s immediately recognizable as authentic on appearance alone and not with a name plastered on the outside of the ring. Inside a mark is fine for me but outside is 🥴