Anonymous
Post 12/24/2024 07:39     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure why people are suggesting you bring a nightgown. Maybe they're 60+?

Unless this was a planned sleepover, you should absolutely not bring something to sleep in. You sleep naked, or you ask him for a soft t-shirt.

You can leave something cozy in your car for the next morning. Hand him your keys and say something along the lines of "hey, can you grab the bag out of my trunk, I have some extra clothes in there" in the morning. You absolutely don't want this to look like you have a plan.


Yep. Or if you want to continue the charade in the morning, “Can you check my trunk? I think my gym bag is in there and might have something I could wear and a toothbrush”


You need an elaborate story for how it got there. Like maybe there was a snowstorm once and you thought you’d be stranded trying to get home from volunteering to donate blood with a special antidote from being bitten by a rare spider and you packed a bag and then whoops, it’s still there.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 22:02     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Anonymous wrote:I'm not sure why people are suggesting you bring a nightgown. Maybe they're 60+?

Unless this was a planned sleepover, you should absolutely not bring something to sleep in. You sleep naked, or you ask him for a soft t-shirt.

You can leave something cozy in your car for the next morning. Hand him your keys and say something along the lines of "hey, can you grab the bag out of my trunk, I have some extra clothes in there" in the morning. You absolutely don't want this to look like you have a plan.


Yep. Or if you want to continue the charade in the morning, “Can you check my trunk? I think my gym bag is in there and might have something I could wear and a toothbrush”
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 20:15     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Have fun, OP - how exciting!
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 19:54     Subject: Re:Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:It's New Years Eve! Wear a dress for sure!


This. Something you’d wear to a fancy restaurant for dinner but that’s comfortable enough to “cook”


OMG no. He asked her over for a cozy night in to cook a meal together and play cards. Obviously we all know what’s really on the menu here, but at least pretend to play along.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 19:20     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Anonymous wrote:I would not bring anything to sleep in but I might bring toothpaste, toothbrush, and contact stuff in my purse.


This. Plus an extra pair of underwear in my purse. Don't bring PJs. You can sleep in underwear and something of his.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 19:08     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
If he wears a button down in the evening, you can steal it to sleep in a suggestively unbutton what you need to in the morning. If he does not, you can always help yourself to his closet to find something you like.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 17:47     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Anonymous wrote:Jeans and cashmere sweater. You can wear that the next day. You won't want to put on the dress or skirt again in the morning. It will feel like a walk of shame outfit.


This is the standard - what can you wear the next day and what do you need for an overnight.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 15:59     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Jeans and cashmere sweater. You can wear that the next day. You won't want to put on the dress or skirt again in the morning. It will feel like a walk of shame outfit.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 15:56     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Cashmere sweater, jeans, great bra/underwear, no PJs/nightgown (seriously?), definitely condoms


Please go w this for the love of god. Some of these other answers are unhinged.


+100

+1000
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 14:37     Subject: Re:Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Anonymous wrote:It's New Years Eve! Wear a dress for sure!


This. Something you’d wear to a fancy restaurant for dinner but that’s comfortable enough to “cook”
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 14:35     Subject: Re:Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Wear something that offers easy access and is easy to remove like a short dress. Skip jeans as they take effort to remove. Skip the sleepwear, bring condoms and have fun. Please don't drink too much but a light buzz is a good idea. Definitely get started in front of the fireplace! We have one in our bedroom and on a cold winter night it's a fun place to be.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 14:18     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
No need to pack a suitcase. Just slide an extra pair of undies and a toothbrush in your purse.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 14:16     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Anonymous wrote:lol by all means show up to his house with a duffel bag full of PJs, toiletries, and change of clothes for the next day. And definitely wear a short slinky cocktail dress for what's being billed as a cozy night in.

(... Seriously, OP, please go with the jeans and cashmere sweater).

Or a nice skirt and sweater.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 13:44     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
I'd do a cute co-ord set
Jeans and top of your liking - fitted tee, bodysuit, sweater
I'd keep the PJ's cute -- two piece set of your liking
Comfy shoes to include a pair of socks



As soon as you walk in the door ask him where you can put your PJs. 🎉


Nah just go right into the bedroom and clear out a drawer.
Anonymous
Post 12/23/2024 13:43     Subject: Newly dating somone- what to wear to his house NYE?
lol by all means show up to his house with a duffel bag full of PJs, toiletries, and change of clothes for the next day. And definitely wear a short slinky cocktail dress for what's being billed as a cozy night in.

(... Seriously, OP, please go with the jeans and cashmere sweater).