You should definitely NOT message her and ask her what happened. What does it matter? You haven’t even been on a date. It would be creepy. Her actions tell you all you need to know.

Just go back to being polite and cordial (or ignore entirely if you want) There’s no way to know what’s going on with her but again, her actions tell you she’s not for you. Case closed.

I've met nice guys at the gym. If you're not supposed to date your coworkers and guys at the bar are drunks and you're not a church goer, options are limited.

My guess is she decided against you due to something you said in your DMs or she saw something in your online presence she didn't like. Or she got more serious with someone she recently started dati

Maybe she has a boyfriend or husband?

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Anonymous wrote:The gym is a discusting place to pick people up op. Gross.

That's a strong reaction. I mean why is it disgusting.

Yeah what’s so gross about meeting someone at the gym?

Nobody decent goes to the gym to meet a date. Anybody at the gym looking for a date is a creeper.

You go to the gym to work on yourself. Period. Go literally anywhere else for your date-hunting.

The gym is sacred. If you're there to pick people up, you're a jerk.

And yes, this applies to all genders/configurations going to the gym as date bait. Gross.

Meh, my gay male friends meet hookups all the time at their gyms.

Oh, honey... A hookup isn't a date. Different worlds entirely.

How much can you bench?