Anonymous
11/29/2024 22:13
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.
I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.
I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids
I agree with you especially about the short temper. I think it only contributes to men but not female cheaters. The man I am talking to now has a temper and he had cheated on his ex. I am actually thinking of stopping speaking to him because of it I don't like men with short tempers. He also gets riled up when I bring up his patience and kids because he assumes I'm saying that he won't be a good father if we have any kids. My dad was also a cheater and he had a short fuse as well. Wonder why male cheaters have such short fuses.
Anonymous
11/29/2024 20:46
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Body count is only important as someone interested in casual sex wouldn't be a good match for me. My concern is how many women a potential partner has been in love with and whether they are not over any of them. I don't want to emotionally share someone.
Anonymous
11/29/2024 17:36
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.
I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.
I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids
I tend to agree (with some outliers of course) I also think some people are looking for “better” all the time in everything and that drives them as well.
Anonymous
11/29/2024 17:33
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Anonymous wrote:Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.
I firmly believe that people (men and women) with dozens of partners form weaker attachments and are less committal. My exH had dozens of women. We had a strong marriage for the first 12 years, then he had an affair with an older married woman for 5 years. After divorce he quickly switched from AP to a new woman (20 years younger than him with 2 kids), although he seemed to be so in love with AP! I wouldn't be surprised if he's sleeping with many women at the same time.
I think it's a character trait: jump into things including new relationships too fast. He also had a short temper. These people don't have patience to build, or for kids
Anonymous
11/29/2024 17:30
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Anonymous wrote:So I am interested in two attractive men and they are 33 and 37 with body counts of less than 8. According to scum women attractive men are drowning in p. So could these men be lying?
Not necessarily.
Anonymous
11/29/2024 17:08
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Good looking guy here. I’m 53 and my total is 10 with 2 of them being long relationships. Also, I’ve never cheated.
Anonymous
11/29/2024 15:25
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am hot as hell. I don’t discuss my body count. If a lady asks, I tell her she doesn’t need to worry her pretty little head about it. We’re still gonna bang. If she wants me enough to ask, I know I am gonna be inside her soon.
Do you have herpes?
PP is gross. One of my relatives got Herpes. Of course, most don't tell because no one would have sex with them. My DH's nephew died of an aids related cancer. If I were dating and serious we would both get a clean bill of health. This is what stable people do, PP is not stable, or a troll lol.
I’m a woman and always ask for see the std panel . Many guys disappear after that. I presume it didn’t clear or they are sleeping around a lot and don’t want to take tests for me. Good enough reason to move on and don’t engage
If more women were using this approach in dating instead of hooking up, then men wouldn’t treat us like s…t
Exactly! Woman are the truly nasty ones because they are sleeping around with any old Joe they find on apps. Married and giving up both their holes or their three holes of you count their mouth to any man they find hot Even if they are married or partnered
Anonymous
11/29/2024 13:40
Subject: Re:Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well OP I would avoid men who sleep around. I view them as people not concerned with their health among other things.
That is precisley why I say my bpdy count is 8
-signed, very attractive man, 43, lawyer, body count of 120ish
gross. just gross. Have a little self restraint.
Anonymous
11/29/2024 13:39
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
of course they're lying op come on!
Anonymous
11/29/2024 13:35
Subject: Re:Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well OP I would avoid men who sleep around. I view them as people not concerned with their health among other things.
That is precisley why I say my bpdy count is 8
-signed, very attractive man, 43, lawyer, body count of 120ish
Unless you were married for 25 years, no one believes you.
Anonymous
11/29/2024 13:14
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Anonymous wrote:Why do you care?
As a woman, I do care to meet someone stable who prioritizes connection There is an extensive research that promiscuous people are less relationship stable
Anonymous
11/29/2024 12:43
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Why do you care?
Anonymous
11/29/2024 12:39
Subject: Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Ask their current sdt test results if that is your concern. I don't think they will tell you the true numbers if the numbers are high.
Anonymous
11/29/2024 12:24
Subject: Re:Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well OP I would avoid men who sleep around. I view them as people not concerned with their health among other things.
That is precisley why I say my bpdy count is 8
-signed, very attractive man, 43, lawyer, body count of 120ish
Which is why women can only protect themselves by asking to take std test before having sex.
Let these make w..res hire prostitutes instead of using OLD for free sex
*male
Anonymous
11/29/2024 12:23
Subject: Re:Do very attractive men lie about their body count?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Well OP I would avoid men who sleep around. I view them as people not concerned with their health among other things.
That is precisley why I say my bpdy count is 8
-signed, very attractive man, 43, lawyer, body count of 120ish
Which is why women can only protect themselves by asking to take std test before having sex.
Let these make w..res hire prostitutes instead of using OLD for free sex