Anonymous wrote:Men always affair down. My ex cheated with his admin assistant, who objectively looks like a horse and as the personality of a doormat. However, she thinks that he is the most important and interesting person in the world, and he likes how that makes him feel. Suddenly he’s into horses.
Anonymous wrote:It's just a wet #ole and I would not read much into it.
Anonymous wrote:Well, maybe beauty isn’t enough! Duh!
Anonymous wrote:Beyonce, Shakira, Diana, etc...
Beauty guarantees nothing.
Anonymous wrote:Men always affair down. My ex cheated with his admin assistant, who objectively looks like a horse and as the personality of a doormat. However, she thinks that he is the most important and interesting person in the world, and he likes how that makes him feel. Suddenly he’s into horses.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Men can't handle their feelings, so when a woman comes along who'll excuse his bs and make him feel special, he's "vulnerable".
It's not an actual vulnerability. It's completely correctable by men taking responsibility for their own emotions instead of remaining forever codependent on women, but if his mama didn't teach him that already, good luck.
Women make this problem by excusing 'boys will be boys' culture, not getting their sons dolls, and deeply imprinting toxic masculinity before the kids are in 3rd grade. And yes, women, because dads don't have to parent, that's soft skill "feminine" work. He's a "provider"
See how all the gender roles lead back to the same place? Dysfunctional, emotionally-stunted male adults who don't think they're suppose to even have feelings, let alone be responsible for making sure their actions aren't strictly governed by them.
But look at how many of these cheater threads are "I had no choice..." "I was powerless..." "I couldn't resist..."
This is pseudo scientific nonsense. You want to feminize men. You cannot fight evolution. Women tend to have different strengths from men and vice versa. This would not work.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here ya go
https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/558762/honey-they-always-affair-down/
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Women are women's worst enemies. What a horribly petty mean girl way to make the other woman responsible for your philandering excuse for a man while insulting her in the process. Absolutely pathetic.
You call the betrayed spouse a "petty mean girl", but not the woman who willingly slept with a married man? A woman who does that is exactly as described, and women who turn down married men are also exactly as described.
There is no excuse for a married man (or person) to go outside their marriage, but it takes two to cheat, and that does not absolve the other party from their portion.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Here ya go
https://www.survivinginfidelity.com/topics/558762/honey-they-always-affair-down/
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Women are women's worst enemies. What a horribly petty mean girl way to make the other woman responsible for your philandering excuse for a man while insulting her in the process. Absolutely pathetic.
The woman who wrote that post needs to find another narrative for why she's staying with the man who cheated on her. The other woman didn't owe her anything. He vowed fidelity. By staying with him, regardless of the stories she tells herself, she's permitting him to break that vow repeatedly. At what point does his cheating become his fault instead of the other woman's fault?
Anonymous wrote:Every woman on DCUM is a dime piece. Confirmed.
Anonymous wrote:Men can't handle their feelings, so when a woman comes along who'll excuse his bs and make him feel special, he's "vulnerable".
It's not an actual vulnerability. It's completely correctable by men taking responsibility for their own emotions instead of remaining forever codependent on women, but if his mama didn't teach him that already, good luck.
Women make this problem by excusing 'boys will be boys' culture, not getting their sons dolls, and deeply imprinting toxic masculinity before the kids are in 3rd grade. And yes, women, because dads don't have to parent, that's soft skill "feminine" work. He's a "provider"
See how all the gender roles lead back to the same place? Dysfunctional, emotionally-stunted male adults who don't think they're suppose to even have feelings, let alone be responsible for making sure their actions aren't strictly governed by them.
But look at how many of these cheater threads are "I had no choice..." "I was powerless..." "I couldn't resist..."