Anonymous wrote:I'm surprised by all the strong responses. My wife directly or indirectly tells me this all the time -- I guess the next step is clearer than I think.
Anonymous wrote:If he does it after every argument then both of you know he doesn't mean it. Its just like a frustrated teen saying I hate you or doesn't want to live here without meaning it. You two need to work on your marriage and your communication skills.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You know your DH. Is he the type to get moody/angry enough to pull something like this and odds are he doesn't mean it and your relationship is otherwise ok?
I mean, if my DH did this, I'd already have an appt with an aggressive family law attorney set up.
OP here. He does this whenever we are in a big argument.
You never had an argument with him before marrying?
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You know your DH. Is he the type to get moody/angry enough to pull something like this and odds are he doesn't mean it and your relationship is otherwise ok?
I mean, if my DH did this, I'd already have an appt with an aggressive family law attorney set up.
OP here. He does this whenever we are in a big argument.
Anonymous wrote:You all are so lucky that you can expect child support when you consider divorce. I’d have to pay my awful husband so much money if I were to get divorced. I know, it’s sad when a dream gets shattered, but at least they’ll pay you money and it’s not all on you.
Anonymous wrote:You should say “ok, great. Should we get a mediator to work through how to split things up?”
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:You all are so lucky that you can expect child support when you consider divorce. I’d have to pay my awful husband so much money if I were to get divorced. I know, it’s sad when a dream gets shattered, but at least they’ll pay you money and it’s not all on you.
If you make more money, yes you pay.[/quote
As I said, lucky their DH‘s have decent jobs and incomes.
Anonymous wrote:You all are so lucky that you can expect child support when you consider divorce. I’d have to pay my awful husband so much money if I were to get divorced. I know, it’s sad when a dream gets shattered, but at least they’ll pay you money and it’s not all on you.
Anonymous wrote:I’d leave and stay at a friends for a week.
I’d consult a lawyer.
Anonymous wrote:You all are so lucky that you can expect child support when you consider divorce. I’d have to pay my awful husband so much money if I were to get divorced. I know, it’s sad when a dream gets shattered, but at least they’ll pay you money and it’s not all on you.