Just ignore her. Do not let her live rent free in your head. That's what she wants. Especially if your relationship started before hers ended.

Anonymous wrote:Total ignoramus here, but is it possible to move one’s embryos to another facility? I wouldn’t like the idea of them being at a place where this woman worked.

Op here. Husband is ready to discard anyway so we will either move or discard soon.

Anonymous wrote:Isn't it likely your ex shared? Like oh I work at sgf, ah yea we spent a lot of time there for ivf...

I can't imagine how he wouldn't share that?

Op here. They do not speak to one another and haven't in years. He hasn't shared with his own family so I know for certain he wouldn't share with her. We didn't spend any time at SGF.