Anonymous wrote:Both of my grandmothers had babies in their 40s, as did many of their contemporaries. This was not uncommon in the pre-birth control era. Women in their 40s having babies is not unusual.

Sure when you've already had babies. Having a first at that age, not so much.

Anonymous wrote:Rather spork my own eyes out

May you never know infertility.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Both of my grandmothers had babies in their 40s, as did many of their contemporaries. This was not uncommon in the pre-birth control era. Women in their 40s having babies is not unusual.

Wanting them in your 40s is selfish

Ridiculous

Anonymous wrote:Rather spork my own eyes out

LOL me too, but you know what? I have two friends who are in their early 40s and child-free and don't really want to be. So if they decide to and are lucky enough to have a baby at 43, 44, or 45, I will be there to cheer them on.