My wife cheated on me. I just decided to cheat when we I have the opportunity going forward.
It reduces my pain. And now I can’t play victim.

Anonymous wrote:I did/still do.

Did it nullify the pain H caused in the first place? Of course not.

We’ve actually done therapy and gotten to a good place, but I still get triggered sometimes and get really upset. When that happens, and if another man happens to come across my path, I will as a way to get even.

I don’t really care about taking the higher road or anything. It’s more like, it makes me feel better in the moment. But nothing will ever undo how he made me feel.

I'm the PP above and I get it. Maybe I've met you?

I had a long-term relationship where I found out that in the beginning she hadn't completely cut ties with her ex. In other words, he didn't know he was her ex. She played us both for some time. I called the guy and really blew up his world and hers.
Had it out with her and stayed with her but from that point on, I placed no value in me being faithful and cheated on her with 4 different women when the opportunity presented itself. It did nothing to lesson my anger towards her but I felt no guilt in doing the same. Stayed with her 7 years until her untimely death and never considered marrying her.