I love dcum! I am going to order several of the dresses to try on. Thanks so much everyone!

-OP

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/fraiche-by-j-faux-wrap-ruffle-long-sleeve-dress/6514982?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FWedding%20Guest&color=930
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/luxely-theo-drape-midi-dress/7741675?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FWedding%20Guest&color=056
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/floral-print-pleated-long-sleeve-dress/7735163?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FWedding%20Guest&color=800
https://www.nordstrom.com/s/cece-gingham-tiered-puff-sleeve-midi-dress/7799870?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FDresses%2FWedding%20Guest&color=006

Anonymous wrote:Here’s a long sleeve option


https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sequin-embroidered-long-sleeve-gown/7657935

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/alex-evenings-cold-shoulder-ruffle-glitter-chiffon-gown-regular-petite/4954298

This is a DAYTIME wedding...

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Anonymous wrote:Check out the leather (including faux) midi pencil skirts at Neimans paired with a cashmere or other top.

That is professional work wear, not festive enough for a wedding.

Really? You work in DC?

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/lambskin-leather-midi-skirt/7942086?origin=category-personalizedsort&breadcrumb=Home%2FWomen%2FClothing%2FSkirts&color=200

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/saint-laurent-seamed-crewneck-cashmere-sweater-prod275180158?childItemId=NMB9JN9_&msid=4884776&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat41160752_cat44980749&page=1&position=59

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/naadam-cashmere-button-down-sleeveless-top-prod270260868?childItemId=NMT5N8W_&msid=4775581&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat41160752_cat44980749&page=1&position=119


https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/sablyn-charleston-short-sleeve-cashmere-sweater-prod269290040?childItemId=NMT5JZK_&msid=4736760&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat41160752_cat44980749&page=2&position=110

NP. Is this a joke? None of these are appropriate for a wedding and all are fugly.

I like a kimono dress.
https://www.eikoai.com/en-us/products/lotta-burgundy

Anonymous wrote:Do you like something like this?

https://www.jcrew.com/p/womens/categories/clothing/dresses-and-jumpsuits/collection-pleated-dress-in-faux-leather/CD374?display=standard&fit=Classic&color_name=dark-hazel&colorProductCode=CD374

or this?

https://www.jcrew.com/p/womens/categories/clothing/dresses-and-jumpsuits/collection-a-line-mini-dress-in-duchesse-satin/BV951?display=standard&fit=Classic&color_name=black&colorProductCode=BV951

Or this? https://tnuck.com/products/ochre-black-maggy-watercolor-dress?variant=44538328514782&utm_source=google&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=18069831786&utm_term=&utm_content=&utm_network=x&utm_feed_id=&utm_extension_id=&utm_target=&utm_placement=&gad_source=1&gclid=CjwKCAjwmaO4BhAhEiwA5p4YL1Ytza5tKRSCE0vnP7BSHPlb5huyyyd4_ptM_YD540OiRfSAFvAaPRoCPJAQAvD_BwE

that one seems like it could work for the nov wedding and the country club dinner. i love a versatile midi dress.

Anonymous wrote:I would wear something like this. Lower heels so it's easier to dance.

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/cinq-a-sept-eden-embellished-a-line-midi-dress-prod275640039

https://www.intentionallyblank.us/products/marche-metallic-slingback-mary-jane

that seems like a really good option

Do you like something like this?

https://www.jcrew.com/p/womens/categories/clothing/dresses-and-jumpsuits/collection-pleated-dress-in-faux-leather/CD374?display=standard&fit=Classic&color_name=dark-hazel&colorProductCode=CD374

or this?

https://www.jcrew.com/p/womens/categories/clothing/dresses-and-jumpsuits/collection-a-line-mini-dress-in-duchesse-satin/BV951?display=standard&fit=Classic&color_name=black&colorProductCode=BV951

I would wear something like this. Lower heels so it's easier to dance.

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/cinq-a-sept-eden-embellished-a-line-midi-dress-prod275640039

https://www.intentionallyblank.us/products/marche-metallic-slingback-mary-jane

Anonymous wrote:What about this:
https://www.anntaylor.com/l/p/839727-hpdp.html?dwvar_839727_color=512311&dwvar_839727_size=120¤cy=usd&country=US&cid=PLA_AT_GGL_BRD_PMAX_AT_GGL_RTN_Dresses%7CDresses&ogmap=PLA%7CRTN%7CGOOG%7CSTND%7Cc%7CSITEWIDE%7CCORE%7CPMAX_AT_GGL_RTN_Dresses%7CDresses%7C%7C18209833653%7C&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAAD-8SahixA46zSME5DP_8EY5tWl2A&gclid=CjwKCAjw9p24BhB_EiwA8ID5BvPTyBrMynCSTPVKQ4MBDH6ioWnDZbcrjBSu-fMi8LG6Ex8OolYxURoCHkcQAvD_BwE&page=2

NP here. This is a lovely dress for a Nov afternoon wedding for a guest. Thank you.

Anonymous wrote:For dresses:

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/argent-bias-cut-viscose-satin-maxi-dress-prod274260157?childItemId=NMT5WGB_&msid=4845054&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat9360738&page=0&position=83

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/shoshanna-audrey-sleeveless-velvet-dress-prod276330021?childItemId=NMT66BK_&msid=4183679&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat9360738&page=1&position=74

Probably too fancy

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/theia-josie-sleeveless-draped-cocktail-dress-prod274780497?childItemId=NMT60UK_&msid=4877744&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat9360738&page=3&position=54

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/carolina-herrera-mock-neck-short-sleeve-check-dress-prod274280067?childItemId=NMB9EM0_&msid=4856147&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat9360738&page=3&position=111

https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/victoria-beckham-ruched-flutter-sleeve-a-line-dress-prod272400226?childItemId=NMB9AEP_&msid=4822560&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat9360738&page=7&position=3


https://www.neimanmarcus.com/p/givenchy-polka-dot-silk-mini-dress-with-tie-neck-prod272690292?childItemId=NMB99Y6_&msid=4819335&navpath=cat000000_cat000001_cat58290731_cat43810733_cat9360738&page=8&position=43


Obvs spending someone else’s money here.

Those dresses are so pretty!

I would do a mini- to midi-length black floral dress, and then dress it down with a cocoon cardigan and trendy layered jewelry. You could do an embroidered tulle one, or a slinkier printed one if that’s more your style.

Anonymous wrote:How about this one (if it’s a crowd that can handle some cleavage) https://www.renttherunway.com/shop/designers/farm_rio/tropical_shine_dress?lens=classic

Not sure you need a maxi dress but this is the first one I actually like that has been posted.

Anonymous wrote:Here’s a long sleeve option


https://www.nordstrom.com/s/sequin-embroidered-long-sleeve-gown/7657935

https://www.nordstrom.com/s/alex-evenings-cold-shoulder-ruffle-glitter-chiffon-gown-regular-petite/4954298

I do not think you should wear a long ball gown.