Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:A woman has never flirted with me I must not be attractive enough lol ... But my wife though flirt with me everyday and that's all I need
Good for you 👍
Anonymous wrote:A woman has never flirted with me I must not be attractive enough lol ... But my wife though flirt with me everyday and that's all I need
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Why are we assuming OP is a woman?
Because a guy would never say that a "hot doctor" flirting with him was "Kind of fun!".
Anonymous wrote:I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.
The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.
The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.
Avoid!!!
Anonymous wrote:My MD DH used to flirt with the fat smelly ones to get them gone sooner.
Anonymous wrote:I don't think anyone has flirted with me in a long time. But I'm pretty sure that's what was happening.
Kind of fun! Does this make me a bad person?
basically just a random internet confession seeing as I dont think I can tell anyone obviously IRL.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.
The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.
The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.
Avoid!!!
Um, yeah. It’s so hard when doctor after doctor stalks you. It’s definitely not all in your head.
See the part in my comment where I talked about how the average nobody would disbelieve you, even if you were brave enough to speak out?
It do be exactly the fsck like that sometimes.
PP, I don't like wishing ill on people, but I suspect I won't have to. May you be served your own brand someday, or watch someone you love suffer the way I had to, and may it soften your frozen heart and cynical mind. Doctors, like all people, can and do use their position of perceived authority to abuse people with less power.
And yes, it really did happen to me. Jerk.
You are a massive red flag yourself.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.
The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.
The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.
Avoid!!!
Um, yeah. It’s so hard when doctor after doctor stalks you. It’s definitely not all in your head.
See the part in my comment where I talked about how the average nobody would disbelieve you, even if you were brave enough to speak out?
It do be exactly the fsck like that sometimes.
PP, I don't like wishing ill on people, but I suspect I won't have to. May you be served your own brand someday, or watch someone you love suffer the way I had to, and may it soften your frozen heart and cynical mind. Doctors, like all people, can and do use their position of perceived authority to abuse people with less power.
And yes, it really did happen to me. Jerk.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.
The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.
The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.
Avoid!!!
op - i think we may be getting ahead of ourselves.
The doc either flirted or didn't. If you're going to allege that it's flirting, you need to walk. Nothing about that is "cute" or "fun".
You're assuming it was her doctor. Maybe it was some random doctor in the elevator
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I've been stalked by my medical providers before (yes, more than once: 2 psychs and a physio). This is not the sexy fantasy you may want it to be.
The sort of 'professional' who would egregiously violate their code of ethics this way is not the kind of person you want to be involved with. And, if/when they become creepily obsessed with you, and you want them to stop, you'll face the deification of whitecoats when you try to make any sort of report about their behavior. People will accuse you of lying, golddigging, "trying to destroy a good person's reputation"... all the while believing the offender's story because "they're a doctor!" The thin white line works a lot like the thin blue line, and not in your favor.
The moment you recognize this is happening, you need to switch providers. Immediately. And if you feel safe, make a report to their licensing board (though, again, don't expect much from the other doctors who review those). No amount of physical attractiveness should outweigh the amorality of this behavior. The lack of ethics is a MASSIVE red flag.
Avoid!!!
Um, yeah. It’s so hard when doctor after doctor stalks you. It’s definitely not all in your head.