Anonymous
Post 10/02/2024 10:13     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
I do soft clothes only, and I really like Lilla P for casual clothes. I also shop at Soft Surroundings occasionally.
Anonymous
Post 09/30/2024 16:15     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
Agree that the karma east dresses would look super cute on the right 50 year old. In fact, I think I'd like them more on someone that age than the 20ish models. On an older woman with the personality to match - playful, confident, doesn't take herself so seriously - those dresses are great!
Anonymous
Post 09/29/2024 21:23     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
Land's end has some dresses in soft material that are actually pretty flattering. I have a few of them.
Anonymous
Post 09/28/2024 22:52     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
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Anonymous wrote:I like a lot of loose schmata-type dresses. I live in a hot climate so these may not work for you this time of year - but something like this is what I put on when I can't stand a waistband:

https://www.karmaeast.com.au/products/tully-dress-bluebell-sleeveless-cotton-pockets?_pos=5&_sid=9d7e326e1&_ss=r

I have five of these dresses now - I love them and get compliments (from women, never men, in case that matters) every time I wear them.

? those are fugly


You don't have to wear them! I love them.

op is asking for recommendations. Those look like something my seamstress mom would've made for me back in the 70s, and forced me to wear.

Maybe if you are 5'8"+, and slim it would look ok on you, but OP is 5'5" with a big chest. That will look more like a muumuu house dress on her.


Dude, we're allowed to like different things. OP asked for soft clothes suggestions. I like these better than Lands End Starfish pants. We can move on, I think.


DP. They're not fugly but definitely not something I'd wear as a 50-year-old...


I am the one who suggested them and I am 51, so - as I keep saying! - we are ALLOWED TO LIKE DIFFERENT THINGS. I would delete my post if we had that ability because my gd this is annoying! I don't remember holding a gun to anyone's head and saying that anyone else is REQUIRED to wear a dress that I personally have gotten a LOT of great use from! Happy use! I feel great in these dresses! I am five feet tall so perhaps it helps to be a Tiny Person who wears them or MAYBE WE JUST LIKE DIFFERENT F'IN THINGS.


FWIW I think the dress is cute, especially for a petite person like yourself.


I don't get the hate. These are cute. I am buying one of these dresses!
Anonymous
Post 09/27/2024 12:45     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
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Anonymous wrote:I like a lot of loose schmata-type dresses. I live in a hot climate so these may not work for you this time of year - but something like this is what I put on when I can't stand a waistband:

https://www.karmaeast.com.au/products/tully-dress-bluebell-sleeveless-cotton-pockets?_pos=5&_sid=9d7e326e1&_ss=r

I have five of these dresses now - I love them and get compliments (from women, never men, in case that matters) every time I wear them.

? those are fugly


You don't have to wear them! I love them.

op is asking for recommendations. Those look like something my seamstress mom would've made for me back in the 70s, and forced me to wear.

Maybe if you are 5'8"+, and slim it would look ok on you, but OP is 5'5" with a big chest. That will look more like a muumuu house dress on her.


Dude, we're allowed to like different things. OP asked for soft clothes suggestions. I like these better than Lands End Starfish pants. We can move on, I think.


DP. They're not fugly but definitely not something I'd wear as a 50-year-old...


I am the one who suggested them and I am 51, so - as I keep saying! - we are ALLOWED TO LIKE DIFFERENT THINGS. I would delete my post if we had that ability because my gd this is annoying! I don't remember holding a gun to anyone's head and saying that anyone else is REQUIRED to wear a dress that I personally have gotten a LOT of great use from! Happy use! I feel great in these dresses! I am five feet tall so perhaps it helps to be a Tiny Person who wears them or MAYBE WE JUST LIKE DIFFERENT F'IN THINGS.


FWIW I think the dress is cute, especially for a petite person like yourself.
Anonymous
Post 09/27/2024 12:23     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
I love James Perse. California comfortable but rich Malibu vibe: linens, cashmeres, soft soft fabrics, loose fit.
Probably overpriced, but lovely.
Anonymous
Post 09/27/2024 12:03     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
Spanx AirEssentials collection is comfortable and cute.

https://spanx.com/collections/airessentials?gclid=d9adbbb5ef8310d852f0dd4338a869d7&gclsrc=3p.ds&msclkid=d9adbbb5ef8310d852f0dd4338a869d7&utm_source=bing&utm_medium=cpc&utm_campaign=WP_B_FF_BRAND_Apparel&utm_term=spanx%20airessentials%20jumpsuit&utm_content=WP_B_FF_BRAND_Apparel_Loungewear-AirEssentials-Jumpsuit
Anonymous
Post 09/27/2024 10:31     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
Anonymous wrote:Good luck, OP! I'm sorry you have to deal with this and I hope you are back to yourself soon.

I was in this situation with a less serious diagnosis and surgery that kept me off my feet for a long time. I am still in my soft clothes phase afterward because it turns out that soft clothes are nice.

When I need to look pulled together, I have some quarter-zips from Aritzia that look fancier than a regular quarter zip sweatshirt. I get them in cream and beige and they look expensive, and they're thick enough that they drape well and don't cling. I have a very similar build to yours, OP, and find that some soft clothes are too thin and too clingy for our build.

Usually I just wear a plain t-shirt under my quarter zips, but my colleague recently wore a Frank and Eileen collared knit shirt under one with the collar popped to match the lines of the quarter-zip collar. It looked great and made her look really put together.

For sweatpants, I go with the big baggy ones from Aritzia for days that I'm at home in the same color as my top or a nice neutral olive. I haven't fully solved the "pants that look ok in public" issue but if I wear matching top and bottom, it looks intentional instead of like I just got out of bed.


Np. Would you mind lining to the specific Arotzia pieces?

Op, I wish you great luck. I have a totally AH and casual lifestyle excepting infrequent part time gigs where I have to truly dress up. I had a leg surgery this month and have aches. I have similar proportions and love bumming around in size 1 sweatsuit separates from the great and also think I may get a velour set from Susie kondi
Anonymous
Post 09/27/2024 10:06     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like a lot of loose schmata-type dresses. I live in a hot climate so these may not work for you this time of year - but something like this is what I put on when I can't stand a waistband:

https://www.karmaeast.com.au/products/tully-dress-bluebell-sleeveless-cotton-pockets?_pos=5&_sid=9d7e326e1&_ss=r

I have five of these dresses now - I love them and get compliments (from women, never men, in case that matters) every time I wear them.

? those are fugly


You don't have to wear them! I love them.

op is asking for recommendations. Those look like something my seamstress mom would've made for me back in the 70s, and forced me to wear.

Maybe if you are 5'8"+, and slim it would look ok on you, but OP is 5'5" with a big chest. That will look more like a muumuu house dress on her.


Dude, we're allowed to like different things. OP asked for soft clothes suggestions. I like these better than Lands End Starfish pants. We can move on, I think.


DP. They're not fugly but definitely not something I'd wear as a 50-year-old...


I am the one who suggested them and I am 51, so - as I keep saying! - we are ALLOWED TO LIKE DIFFERENT THINGS. I would delete my post if we had that ability because my gd this is annoying! I don't remember holding a gun to anyone's head and saying that anyone else is REQUIRED to wear a dress that I personally have gotten a LOT of great use from! Happy use! I feel great in these dresses! I am five feet tall so perhaps it helps to be a Tiny Person who wears them or MAYBE WE JUST LIKE DIFFERENT F'IN THINGS.
Anonymous
Post 09/27/2024 09:52     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like a lot of loose schmata-type dresses. I live in a hot climate so these may not work for you this time of year - but something like this is what I put on when I can't stand a waistband:

https://www.karmaeast.com.au/products/tully-dress-bluebell-sleeveless-cotton-pockets?_pos=5&_sid=9d7e326e1&_ss=r

I have five of these dresses now - I love them and get compliments (from women, never men, in case that matters) every time I wear them.

? those are fugly


You don't have to wear them! I love them.

op is asking for recommendations. Those look like something my seamstress mom would've made for me back in the 70s, and forced me to wear.

Maybe if you are 5'8"+, and slim it would look ok on you, but OP is 5'5" with a big chest. That will look more like a muumuu house dress on her.


Dude, we're allowed to like different things. OP asked for soft clothes suggestions. I like these better than Lands End Starfish pants. We can move on, I think.


DP. They're not fugly but definitely not something I'd wear as a 50-year-old...
Anonymous
Post 09/27/2024 09:37     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like a lot of loose schmata-type dresses. I live in a hot climate so these may not work for you this time of year - but something like this is what I put on when I can't stand a waistband:

https://www.karmaeast.com.au/products/tully-dress-bluebell-sleeveless-cotton-pockets?_pos=5&_sid=9d7e326e1&_ss=r

I have five of these dresses now - I love them and get compliments (from women, never men, in case that matters) every time I wear them.

? those are fugly


You don't have to wear them! I love them.

op is asking for recommendations. Those look like something my seamstress mom would've made for me back in the 70s, and forced me to wear.

Maybe if you are 5'8"+, and slim it would look ok on you, but OP is 5'5" with a big chest. That will look more like a muumuu house dress on her.


Dude, we're allowed to like different things. OP asked for soft clothes suggestions. I like these better than Lands End Starfish pants. We can move on, I think.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2024 20:15     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
I recommend the lands end serious sweats.
They are comfortable and in all the colors.

https://www.landsend.com/products/womens-high-rise-serious-sweats-fleece-lined-pocket-bootcutpants/id_380574https://www.landsend.com/products/womens-serious-sweats-high-rise-relaxed-straight-leg-pants/id_386877

https://www.landsend.com/products/womens-high-rise-serious-sweats-fleece-lined-pocket-bootcut-pants/id_380574



Anonymous
Post 09/26/2024 17:38     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like a lot of loose schmata-type dresses. I live in a hot climate so these may not work for you this time of year - but something like this is what I put on when I can't stand a waistband:

https://www.karmaeast.com.au/products/tully-dress-bluebell-sleeveless-cotton-pockets?_pos=5&_sid=9d7e326e1&_ss=r

I have five of these dresses now - I love them and get compliments (from women, never men, in case that matters) every time I wear them.

? those are fugly


You don't have to wear them! I love them.

op is asking for recommendations. Those look like something my seamstress mom would've made for me back in the 70s, and forced me to wear.

Maybe if you are 5'8"+, and slim it would look ok on you, but OP is 5'5" with a big chest. That will look more like a muumuu house dress on her.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2024 17:35     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I like a lot of loose schmata-type dresses. I live in a hot climate so these may not work for you this time of year - but something like this is what I put on when I can't stand a waistband:

https://www.karmaeast.com.au/products/tully-dress-bluebell-sleeveless-cotton-pockets?_pos=5&_sid=9d7e326e1&_ss=r

I have five of these dresses now - I love them and get compliments (from women, never men, in case that matters) every time I wear them.

? those are fugly


You don't have to wear them! I love them.
Anonymous
Post 09/26/2024 16:30     Subject: I’m approaching a “soft clothes only” phase — need help
Anonymous wrote:I like a lot of loose schmata-type dresses. I live in a hot climate so these may not work for you this time of year - but something like this is what I put on when I can't stand a waistband:

https://www.karmaeast.com.au/products/tully-dress-bluebell-sleeveless-cotton-pockets?_pos=5&_sid=9d7e326e1&_ss=r

I have five of these dresses now - I love them and get compliments (from women, never men, in case that matters) every time I wear them.

? those are fugly