Rarely anymore. He traveled for business a ton and when he retired I think he just decided to wind down guys weekends. Now he gets to play golf all year so a winter golf trip no longer has the same appeal. He actually prefers couples trips because the nights aren’t as late and he knows I’ve always enjoyed hotel sex.

My DH’s childhood friends are scattered all over the world, so never. He does have guys nights out with local friends once in a while.

Twice. He goes away on a hunting trip with the boys every Fall, and to a conference with men from church in the winter. I am gone way more often than he is, oops!

Anonymous wrote:How often does he see his friends (that involves a trip, not a night out)?

Never. He has no friends.

He will try to go to Dad’s stuff held at or with the school, but only if I tell him about it, out in his calendar and remind him multiple times.

Anonymous wrote:How often does he see his friends (that involves a trip, not a night out)?

I was married for 14 years and never. Well, he once officiated at a friend's wedding and I couldn't make it, but that is it. I went on girl's trips, though.

Anonymous wrote:Never. I won't allow it.

I assume you are a troll, but if not, I hope you are super hot and fulfill all your husband's sexual fetishes.

Two to three times a year. DH and many of his friends since childhood do an annual winter hike that they have been doing for like 40 years, usually at some point on the AT. They have a long weekend at our river house where they fish, eat junk food, and drink beer, and just be the feral Lord of the Flies kids they used to be decades ago. There is often another more sophisticated trip somewhere else -- last year it was to Charleston, where one of the friends lives and has a fancy boat or something, but my DH didn't go to that one.

DH here: once a year for a guys' ski trip. Will probably go 2-3x per year once our kids are a bit older and easier to handle. Typical ski trip is 3-4 nights.

DW travels 7-8x per year for work (usually 2-3 nights per trip) and does a few one-night trips to NYC every year with a girlfriend or her mother.

He used to with some college friends, once a year. Then his best friend seemed to have ghosted him for whatever reason (I suspect friend is having family difficulties), so now he doesn't do any.

Once in many years of marriage. He is not a guy's trip kind of guy.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:2-3 times a year. He is actually leaving this Thursday through Sunday and then again at the beginning of October Thursday through Sunday, but it's just a coincidence that both trips are happening close together (different groups of friends).

I go on girls' trips 2-3 times a year.

I no longer travel for work but he does occassionally.

Now he knows you are an avid reader here

Ha! Joke's on him, if he calls me out it means HE is on DCUM!

Anonymous wrote:2-3 times a year. He is actually leaving this Thursday through Sunday and then again at the beginning of October Thursday through Sunday, but it's just a coincidence that both trips are happening close together (different groups of friends).

I go on girls' trips 2-3 times a year.

I no longer travel for work but he does occassionally.

Now he knows you are an avid reader here

2-3 times a year. He is actually leaving this Thursday through Sunday and then again at the beginning of October Thursday through Sunday, but it's just a coincidence that both trips are happening close together (different groups of friends).

I go on girls' trips 2-3 times a year.

I no longer travel for work but he does occassionally.

2-3 times a year for 3-4 days. Twice a year with his college friends and another trip with his sisters’ husbands and his dad.

I tend to be gone a similar amount on weekends / long weekends. I also travel for for 2-3 times a year for a few days.

Once a year — occasionally twice. He also usually goes to our beach house for a few days by himself to fish in the fall.