Anonymous wrote:It seems to me that there are bigger areas in your relationship than just your S/O being a member of an exclusive club.

Perhaps you need to take a step back & evaluate your entire relationship……
What about it makes you think that you two will never marry??
Especially after being together for so long.

Hopefully you can figure out if the issues you have w/this person are something that you can live with or if there are underlying causes involved where staying w/this person will be a huge detriment to your future.

Wishing you only the best. 👍🏽

I mean in fairness to OP it sounds like they're both divorced and just have no interest in marriage again?

It seems to me that there are bigger areas in your relationship than just your S/O being a member of an exclusive club.

Perhaps you need to take a step back & evaluate your entire relationship……
What about it makes you think that you two will never marry??
Especially after being together for so long.

Hopefully you can figure out if the issues you have w/this person are something that you can live with or if there are underlying causes involved where staying w/this person will be a huge detriment to your future.

Wishing you only the best. 👍🏽

He should't be telling you about nor sending you photos from Bohemian Grove.

I think OP did not mention golf not to put the place. If it is golf and if he wanted to most clubs can add a significant other that is not married. Some may not but the trend is that you can add your long term SO.

Why do you care that you will never belong? You can go with him.

Unless the club is fight club.

Anonymous wrote:Omg OP if this is Burning Tree just say so. Jfc.

OP didn't mention golf so I dont' think so.

Maybe one of the university clubs?

Omg OP if this is Burning Tree just say so. Jfc.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How couldn't you be a member if you get married? Is it a men's club?

We are over 50. Neither of us want to re-marry.

I am asking, what would you do?

How do you think this will play out long-term?

Let's say, five years from now. We are living together. Not married.

He still belongs to the club. I don't.

Let's just say it's a swimming pool and tennis and racquetball club.

He brings you as a guest.

Anonymous wrote:So what are you looking for from us here?

If you are dating ti marry and you’ve already eliminated him as a potential spouse then move on.

If you are just dating to kill time, that’s fine as long as you aren’t leading him to believe there will be something more.

Anonymous wrote:They probably wouldn’t have you as a member anyway

This isn't even a good troll response, weirdo. The entire point of the thread is literally that she is not a member/

They probably wouldn’t have you as a member anyway