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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

Average V fits 7.5 inch object by circumference. 3 fingers were fitting when I as a virgin. Dildos of 2’6 thick are beginner level and same size as average hand when fingers are in

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

I’m not a man, have given birth multiple times and 4 still seems like… a lot!

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

Yea, and even those who didn’t give vaginal birth… still go to Obgyn regularly.
Men are clueless!

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

Strange comment on a thread about sex over 50. Assume majority of women gave birth.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

It definitely fits 3-4 fingers and even a whole hand. How do you think women give birth? Stretching it is!
It’s highly pleasurable G spot stimulation - way more than going down. Foreign men started forplay with fingering 25 years ago with I was a young woman with no experience. Nobody even knew that oral on women existed and I always had several Os that way, before even getting to the act (which is A spot stimulation).
American men are not good in bed and not wanting to learn.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

4!? How big are these holes!? Just a casual fisting as foreplay?

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

Put 3-4 fingers slight in and move real fast like a massager. Side to side not in and out.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like. ;-)

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

Wow, not my experience at all!

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like.

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

That's what I'm saying: it's way easier to get her to O with external stimulation with hand, than with sucking.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like.

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

IMHO most men suck at this, no pun intended. I usually try to steer them away from sucking energetically at some random spot on my inner thigh.

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Anonymous wrote:The problem is, men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies and women are expected to be airbrushed and tight.

Every man you see in the media these days is jacked with 5% body fat and the clear message is that's what's considered "hot" and no, you are not allowed to be an "imperfect" fat slob.

Maybe if you hadn't let them do this to women since the beginning, we'd have more sympathy for the fact that it's starting to happen to you, too.

I have absolutely no control over the p0rn industry, so I didn't "let" them do anything to women.

I am not asking for sympathy, I'm simply stating that the previous claim that men are "allowed" to have imperfect bodies is wrong.

But thanks for your stupid remark.

Nah, bro, by and large, it's true. The range of "doable" men is far greater than the range for women. Men, generally speaking, are allowed a lot more imperfection than women. Still.

How do you measure this? I’d have guessed that women think less than 50% of men are doable but men think 90% of women are doable.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like.

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

Why not using hands?

Huh? Very different.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like.

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

Why not using hands?

A lot of people either are not informed about HSV, or accepting of the risk.

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Anonymous wrote:49F here. IME, men don't care. I've been trimmed, I've been bald. Bush is making a comeback so do what you want. And, trust. Their bodies are just as banged up as yours. That's life. Be confident, be enthusiastic and have fun!

My best advice is to cut them off quickly if the sex doesn't meet your expectations. We are too old to be nice about bad sex!

What is “bad sex” from your respective ? I only met couple men so far I really wanted to have sec with. I’m 20 BMI perfect body woman in my 40s. I’m only attracted to men with similar bodies. But even those who are hit are horrible kissers at makeout session, for example. I have no desire to continue if he’s a bad kisser

PP here. Agree that kissing tells you a lot. Bad sex for me is no stamina and men that aren't interested in going down. Or, they go down and it is terrible. Or, they tell you that they are 'great' in bed and that isn't true. It's all subjective I guess. I'm in pretty good shape and the dude I'm sleeping with now is fat. But, still great in bed. We like what we like.

But why would anyone go down on the first time together? I love it but won't O from it, and wouldn't allow him before STD testing due to HSV concerns

Many many women need them to go downtown to O. It’s standard foreplay.

Why not using hands?