Anonymous wrote:The gay/trans types all hang together too. does that make them bad people?

But they don't? Kids are much more tolerant now and gay people and straight people aren't separate groups. DC's college group has two gay men-one rich black guy, another low income and asian, two vastly wealthy students, and him- UMC and white suburban. I do notice that UMC white straight boys might accidentally isolate gay kids if they're uncomfortable with them, so there tends to be more women/gay alliances.

Anonymous wrote:The good news is that there are other cliques at Ivies and SLACs besides athletes and rich kids! There are also different flavors of minority kid cliques, the LGBTQ clique, the theater kid clique, the Woke Kid clique.

Yes if you are a middle class white suburban straight kid you might have trouble fitting in… not least because you are the rarest type of kid to get accepted. How did you even get in here, bro?

Middle class white suburban kids are one of the most abundant at the top schools after wealthy people who don't need financial aid.

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Anonymous wrote:The gay/trans types all hang together too. does that make them bad people?

Survival instinct, of course.

Are you saying it's the same reason the wealthy hang together?

Yes, because you all non wealthy people want something from them.

Oh of course that's exactly the same thing

OP sounds like typical liberal loser.

Anonymous wrote:No one cared about Zuckerberg at Harvard until some rich dudes - the Winklevoss twins - had an idea and hired him to code it.

Zuckerberg was an UMC Jewish kid..,

Anonymous wrote:No one cared about Zuckerberg at Harvard until some rich dudes - the Winklevoss twins - had an idea and hired him to code it.

Well yes…that is the point. You have wealthy people with maybe an idea but not the drive, they need to match up with the kids that can make things happen.

I guess the description of rich white dudes is a little off. My kid’s school has lots of wealthy kids from the Middle East.

This thread is the pits

No one cared about Zuckerberg at Harvard until some rich dudes - the Winklevoss twins - had an idea and hired him to code it.

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Anonymous wrote:The gay/trans types all hang together too. does that make them bad people?

Survival instinct, of course.

Are you saying it's the same reason the wealthy hang together?

Yes, because you all non wealthy people want something from them.

Anonymous wrote:The gay/trans types all hang together too. does that make them bad people?

Survival instinct, of course.

Are you saying it's the same reason the wealthy hang together?

The gay/trans types all hang together too. does that make them bad people?

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So called 'connections' is BS for the most part for normal middle class folks.

This is DC's experience at Bowdoin. All her friends are solidly middle class down to low income, but there's whole swaths of CEO daughters and trust fund kids who latch to each other throughout the four years and are very careful with who they get close with. There's also clear class distinction between those who went to Philips Academies and Grotons, so you really go to these places to take the resources from the institution, unless you're wealthy and your friend, whose dad is CEO of Boeing, can get you an in.

Not true in my experience at an Ivy.

Absolutely true - not only in my experience but in what others have told me.

The good news is that there are other cliques at Ivies and SLACs besides athletes and rich kids! There are also different flavors of minority kid cliques, the LGBTQ clique, the theater kid clique, the Woke Kid clique.

Yes if you are a middle class white suburban straight kid you might have trouble fitting in… not least because you are the rarest type of kid to get accepted. How did you even get in here, bro?

[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most top colleges are like this. The richest students, across incomes, hang out with one another. The athletes, usually white outside of mainstream sports, hang out with one another. The Middle Class figure it out. The fgli hang out with the fgli.[/quote]

100% false. I have a full pay kid at Duke. They’re friends with kids who are fgli and lots of kids on financial aid, and some insanely uber-wealthy people(most of those try to hide it, to be fair). [/quote]
Duke has its own society of heavily wealthy students who all congregate, are you kidding?

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So called 'connections' is BS for the most part for normal middle class folks.

This is DC's experience at Bowdoin. All her friends are solidly middle class down to low income, but there's whole swaths of CEO daughters and trust fund kids who latch to each other throughout the four years and are very careful with who they get close with. There's also clear class distinction between those who went to Philips Academies and Grotons, so you really go to these places to take the resources from the institution, unless you're wealthy and your friend, whose dad is CEO of Boeing, can get you an in.

Not true in my experience at an Ivy.

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