There’s plenty of time for housecoats,wear what makes you happy whether it be a lycra mini dress or a pair of overalls.

Anonymous wrote:What does revealing mean in this context?

+1 I wear a bikini top and board shirts to the pool, and loose/v-neck shirts and shorts, which are on the revealing side for my neighborhood (lots of people from more conservative religions) but I don’t think of them as super revealing (I’m very flat chested so no one’s getting a show from my shirts). My wife doesn’t care and I’ve only ever gotten catcalled/harassed when I was wearing long sleeved/high necked clothes, weirdly.

What does revealing mean in this context?

Anonymous wrote:DW has a friend who wears very revealing closes. She is very curvy and you can even see the exact kind of thong that she is wearing. And she is married too. Sorry call me what you want but my wife is not leaving the house like that. I have no desire for other men to salivate over here. It's not a trust issue or anything like that. I just want her for me that's all.

I don’t dress in a way that draws sexual attention (from all oglers ), but your post sounds a bit like you own your wife. And you do not.

Anonymous wrote:Depends what are we talking about here.

A low-cut V-neck, perhaps a backless classy dress.... or more like Diasy Dukes on a mother of 3?

If the former, I'll wear something like that to a wedding or party.

But if revealing is trashy, nope. That's low class to me

I always feel bad for boys whose mothers dress too trashy. And know those girls will be dressing the same way by 14 😟

Anonymous wrote:The older I get the more my clothing choices trend utilitarian.

Same.

We are wising up (and rejecting the pressure to be someone else’s entertainment).

Anonymous wrote:My SIL wears plunging necklines unless she is in court that day. It is her best feature so why not?

Why?

Free peeks to every creep who walks by? On the metro, every guy out on parole? Some sleazy or mentally ill weirdo?

I don’t need the admiring glances of strangers to feel good about myself.

You can dress attractively, to highlight your good features, without reveal6 the private parts of your anatomy to random weirdos.
Who wants creepy guys (abd there are plenty out there) eying you all over? Nowadays, half if them take photos or videos. No thank you.

Anonymous wrote:DW has a friend who wears very revealing closes. She is very curvy and you can even see the exact kind of thong that she is wearing. And she is married too. Sorry call me what you want but my wife is not leaving the house like that. I have no desire for other men to salivate over here. It's not a trust issue or anything like that. I just want her for me that's all.

How exactly would you stop her?

Anonymous wrote:At the right time and place I will wear clothes that are close fitting and fun, but nothing that will have my breasts falling out or show my butt if I bend over. I’m quite happy with my figure but I like to save the best for my husband. I am surprised how trampy some educated women will look but to each their own.

Educated women don't call other women trampy.

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Anonymous wrote:I think DH would like it, but it’s not my style. I’m almost 50, so it looks off to me on 40+ women. Even with fit bodies. It’s like the face doesn’t match the body.

It's always disconcerting when the body is good from behind and they turn around and it's you grandmother's face.

Most people aren't grandmothers in their 40s, but apparently you come from a teen mom background.

Anonymous wrote:I’m thin with very large natural breasts. I wear tanks or a fitted shirt and you can’t miss them. 🤷‍♂️

Same.

Anonymous wrote:If you dress in revealing clothing in public or don't does your partner encourage it? Why do they encourage it?

Why would a partner encourage immature and insecure behavior?

Anonymous wrote:I’m thin with very large natural breasts. I wear tanks or a fitted shirt and you can’t miss them. 🤷‍♂️

+1

Nah. I am a resection survivor and my body looks deformed except the legs, face and arms. I cover up. No one wants to see this mess! If I looked amazing I might.