Anonymous wrote:I’m not PP but I’m a woman and my partners tend to be younger. I don’t hook up randomly. When I find someone I want to be exclusive with we both test. I go to la core for a full panel. Pp was incorrect they test for hsv 1 and 2 and you should be tested. I don’t like condoms so proceed unsheathed once we share results.

Just because I won’t marry and take younger lover don’t assume I’m a slut.

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Anonymous wrote:Who are all you people who are managing to find FWBs 15-20 years younger? How do you even manage that?

...you probably still have all your hair, don't you?

I am a woman and look much younger. Not hard. Very easy. Tons of people are interested. I say no a lot. But I have had a few.

Do you make them do std test for HSV2? Or always condoms ? They are np exclusive with you right ?

Most doctors won’t do a test for HSV2. Mine won’t. I do talk about STDs. I use condoms. Yes, they have been exclusive unless lying. I am not dating now though. It’s not worth my time even though I can get hot and young options. When I see someone, it usually lasts about eight months to a year and then I end it. I have been divorced 4.5 years.

Anonymous wrote:Is it normal not to feel any desire to date 2 years post divorce? Indo want to date but I don't feel any enthusiasm. I did therapy for 1 year. My testosterone levels which I thought could be an issue turned to be great at 45.

I have just been focusing on my hobbies, diet, fitness, career, kids and occasional outings with friends. In a way I feel great I am happy, my income double since my divorce, just closed on a house.

Every time I am ready to start an OLD profile I just give up halfway and go back to something else.

How long did it take you to feel like you were ready to date post divorce?

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Anonymous wrote:Who are all you people who are managing to find FWBs 15-20 years younger? How do you even manage that?

...you probably still have all your hair, don't you?

I am a woman and look much younger. Not hard. Very easy. Tons of people are interested. I say no a lot. But I have had a few.

Do you make them do std test for HSV2? Or always condoms ? They are np exclusive with you right ?

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Anonymous wrote:Who are all you people who are managing to find FWBs 15-20 years younger? How do you even manage that?

...you probably still have all your hair, don't you?

I am a woman and look much younger. Not hard. Very easy. Tons of people are interested. I say no a lot. But I have had a few.

Anonymous wrote:Who are all you people who are managing to find FWBs 15-20 years younger? How do you even manage that?

...you probably still have all your hair, don't you?

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Anonymous wrote:I've been divorced 4 years. I am completely done with dating (woman here). I tried, it sucks. Not worth my time or energy. I would never ever remarry or live with someone ever again.

Do you have FWBs?

I have in the past but not now—it’s more trouble than it’s worth even when they’re 15 or 20 years younger.

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Anonymous wrote:I've been divorced 4 years. I am completely done with dating (woman here). I tried, it sucks. Not worth my time or energy. I would never ever remarry or live with someone ever again.

Do you have FWBs?

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Anonymous wrote:My only warning to you would be to be careful with casual hookups. Soon after my divorce I got into the FWBs thingy, but it didn't work out. Each one of the FWBs after a few months were excepting something serious. 1 explicitly asked. 2 said they would continue having sex only if we became exclusive. They were all in their 40s. I don't do anything with anyone under 30 because they are either looking for kids/marriage or a serious boyfriend. I thought women in the 40s would be better nope. Thats just my experience.

Yea, too bad women tend to get naturally attached though having sex. Maybe you should consider a poly arrangement with one “prime” and others coming over for threesomes. I know someone who does it, but he’s got hundreds of millions and bandwidth for all women in his “pride”

Please don’t speak for all women. I don’t get “attached” though having sex.

+1. I am a woman. I don’t get attached to men through sex. I’m always the one who ends it after about a year. Mid 40s.

Both of you are exceptions - there is vast research proving the opposite. Most women need consistency to be fulfilled . Of course sex is not the main driver of attachments, but it’s silly to deny that biologically it works like a glue /couple bonding

Anonymous wrote:I've been divorced 4 years. I am completely done with dating (woman here). I tried, it sucks. Not worth my time or energy. I would never ever remarry or live with someone ever again.

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Anonymous wrote:My only warning to you would be to be careful with casual hookups. Soon after my divorce I got into the FWBs thingy, but it didn't work out. Each one of the FWBs after a few months were excepting something serious. 1 explicitly asked. 2 said they would continue having sex only if we became exclusive. They were all in their 40s. I don't do anything with anyone under 30 because they are either looking for kids/marriage or a serious boyfriend. I thought women in the 40s would be better nope. Thats just my experience.

Yea, too bad women tend to get naturally attached though having sex. Maybe you should consider a poly arrangement with one “prime” and others coming over for threesomes. I know someone who does it, but he’s got hundreds of millions and bandwidth for all women in his “pride”

Please don’t speak for all women. I don’t get “attached” though having sex.

+1. I am a woman. I don’t get attached to men through sex. I’m always the one who ends it after about a year. Mid 40s.

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Anonymous wrote:My only warning to you would be to be careful with casual hookups. Soon after my divorce I got into the FWBs thingy, but it didn't work out. Each one of the FWBs after a few months were excepting something serious. 1 explicitly asked. 2 said they would continue having sex only if we became exclusive. They were all in their 40s. I don't do anything with anyone under 30 because they are either looking for kids/marriage or a serious boyfriend. I thought women in the 40s would be better nope. Thats just my experience.

Yea, too bad women tend to get naturally attached though having sex. Maybe you should consider a poly arrangement with one “prime” and others coming over for threesomes. I know someone who does it, but he’s got hundreds of millions and bandwidth for all women in his “pride”

Please don’t speak for all women. I don’t get “attached” though having sex.

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Anonymous wrote:My only warning to you would be to be careful with casual hookups. Soon after my divorce I got into the FWBs thingy, but it didn't work out. Each one of the FWBs after a few months were excepting something serious. 1 explicitly asked. 2 said they would continue having sex only if we became exclusive. They were all in their 40s. I don't do anything with anyone under 30 because they are either looking for kids/marriage or a serious boyfriend. I thought women in the 40s would be better nope. Thats just my experience.

Yea, too bad women tend to get naturally attached though having sex. Maybe you should consider a poly arrangement with one “prime” and others coming over for threesomes. I know someone who does it, but he’s got hundreds of millions and bandwidth for all women in his “pride”

Please don’t speak for all women. I don’t get “attached” though having sex.