Anonymous wrote:Just found out. Girlfriend that he ended it with texted me. I do not know what to do.

Is there any other evidence or is this just a prank? If you've a good relationship and there is no such history, would you just hand over your marriage to some random woman who claims to date a man who isn't only married but sees prostitutes on the side? Get an investigator and decide rationally.

That us if he is indeed an ethical man and a decent husband with clean history.

lawyer up!

OP if you were not having regular sex w ur husband or if you gained a lot of weight, you r part of the problem along with him.

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Anonymous wrote:Contrary to what many women on this board think you cannot kick him out of the house. If you do and he wants to stay you have no legal basis to do so. Keep that in mind. My advice as married man is to do orcr this piece of sh**t. And do not blame yourself at any point. Many times people take for granted that finding a good and loyal spouse is kind of easy like just go on dates do blah blah and bingo. No it's PURE LUCK. Those who ended up with good partners got lucky period. I am sorry OP.

Not true in MD

Whats not true?

You can have a cheater removed from the house.

I've had 2 friends who were stay at home moms who had to move out after being caught cheating. Yes they were legally required to leave.

What is with these SAHMs lately. I also have seen one booted- but was “entertaining” the men in the home.

These SAHMs who cheat know that when they are caught and subsequently dumped they will not suffer significant financial consequences. It's expensive to use infidelity to change the outcome of alimony and most men will not financially abandon their children. So these women won't be loosing a lot. They have the sex, the financial support post divorce and the moral support as well believe it or not. When women cheat they are more likely to have sympathy because you know the standard line they are overburdened with taking of the kids, the hubby is never home, they are not "emotionally supportive". So cheating is not always a bad deal for these women.

OP I was in a similar situation. My ex wife had a sex addiction. I do not know how many men she slept with but I did not get any STI and that was my biggest fear. Your husband may equally be a sex addict. Sex addiction is a very very difficult mental illness to treat. Best of luck to you.

you know what to do. Stop sleeping with him immediately, contact a lawyer, and divorce him. So sorry OP.

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Anonymous wrote:Contrary to what many women on this board think you cannot kick him out of the house. If you do and he wants to stay you have no legal basis to do so. Keep that in mind. My advice as married man is to do orcr this piece of sh**t. And do not blame yourself at any point. Many times people take for granted that finding a good and loyal spouse is kind of easy like just go on dates do blah blah and bingo. No it's PURE LUCK. Those who ended up with good partners got lucky period. I am sorry OP.

Not true in MD

Whats not true?

You can have a cheater removed from the house.

I've had 2 friends who were stay at home moms who had to move out after being caught cheating. Yes they were legally required to leave.

What is with these SAHMs lately. I also have seen one booted- but was “entertaining” the men in the home.

Sorry about this OP. I don't think anyone could stay with all he did

Get a full STD panel

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Anonymous wrote:Contrary to what many women on this board think you cannot kick him out of the house. If you do and he wants to stay you have no legal basis to do so. Keep that in mind. My advice as married man is to do orcr this piece of sh**t. And do not blame yourself at any point. Many times people take for granted that finding a good and loyal spouse is kind of easy like just go on dates do blah blah and bingo. No it's PURE LUCK. Those who ended up with good partners got lucky period. I am sorry OP.

Not true in MD

Whats not true?

You can have a cheater removed from the house.

I've had 2 friends who were stay at home moms who had to move out after being caught cheating. Yes they were legally required to leave.

In no jurisdiction is this true.

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Anonymous wrote:How did your husband have so much free time without you knowing?

Maybe he was taking time away from work?

Draining his accounts to pay for all this? Prostitutes and girlfriends aren’t free. Maybe separate accounts are a bad thing after all.

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Anonymous wrote:How did your husband have so much free time without you knowing?

She was too busy being a wife and mother to consider that the man she made vows to was a sex addict. Shame on her I guess?

If your husband is never home you might start to winder why. Also this was money out the door, nothing was noticed?

Anonymous wrote:How did your husband have so much free time without you knowing?

She was too busy being a wife and mother to consider that the man she made vows to was a sex addict. Shame on her I guess?

Start an OnlyFans and get yourself a boyfriend too. Let’s be real most of you who post this stuff have no intention of divorcing, so might as well have some fun on the side also.

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Anonymous wrote:Contrary to what many women on this board think you cannot kick him out of the house. If you do and he wants to stay you have no legal basis to do so. Keep that in mind. My advice as married man is to do orcr this piece of sh**t. And do not blame yourself at any point. Many times people take for granted that finding a good and loyal spouse is kind of easy like just go on dates do blah blah and bingo. No it's PURE LUCK. Those who ended up with good partners got lucky period. I am sorry OP.

Not true in MD

Whats not true?

You can have a cheater removed from the house.

I've had 2 friends who were stay at home moms who had to move out after being caught cheating. Yes they were legally required to leave.