Anonymous
06/02/2024 19:53
Subject: Falling in love with someone unattractive
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I dated a butterface for years. She’s hot but her face.
You are probably not hot so....
I’m not hot, but good looking. 😂
Anonymous
06/02/2024 15:17
Subject: Falling in love with someone unattractive
Anonymous wrote:I dated a butterface for years. She’s hot but her face.
You are probably not hot so....
Anonymous
06/02/2024 15:17
Subject: Falling in love with someone unattractive
Anonymous wrote:My sister just introduced me to her boyfriend. We are closer and share everything with each other. I knew something was up when she’d been dating him for a while but I never met him.
When we met he seems like a nice guy and clearly makes her happy. She confessed that no one else has met him because they are an “odd couple” and she’s Afraid of being judged.
My sister is very stereotypically beautiful and admittedly her boyfriend is not. I don’t think this is a big deal. She thinks I’m minimizing her concerns about family judgement.
This is not a big deal right? To me what matters is how he treats her, not if others think he’s handsome or accomplished enough.
I agree with you and think it says a lot about the family. I've met some incredibly handsome guys that are real narcissistic jerks.....you should be with someone who you find attractive(could be different from others) and someone who will respect you and love you.
Anonymous
06/02/2024 13:47
Subject: Falling in love with someone unattractive
I dated a butterface for years. She’s hot but her face.
Anonymous
06/02/2024 13:44
Subject: Falling in love with someone unattractive
Anonymous wrote:My DH is not what most people would call very handsome (though I love him) yet I might be considered conventionally attractive. He is short and overweight. I know people sometimes think we look odd together (and occasionally people say rude things to him about a looks mismatch), but he is always kind to me and takes care of me and our children are beautiful so who cares what anyone says.
This. Looks are ofc important on some level. But there are so many other qualities that make someone attractive. Kindness, humor, fun, shared values and out look, etc. all play into that for me.
Anonymous
06/02/2024 12:41
Subject: Falling in love with someone unattractive
He probably has money. We all know women who have done it.
Anonymous
06/02/2024 08:53
Subject: Falling in love with someone unattractive
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