Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m a feminist and believe women can and should ask men out… however, I never have. I like a man to show the confidence and wit and initiative it takes to ask me out. I expect to have to show the wit and intelligence to interact in such a way that he wants to ask me out. I also like a man who sometimes likes to be dominant in bed. My desire is very responsive to being desired (like most women, for better or worse). Meek, shy men can’t do this for me.
You are not a feminist. Feminists will go crazy when they hear you say thinks like you want your man to be dominant in bed
You don’t get to gatekeeper feminism, whether your comment was tongue in cheek or not.
NP here. We actually do get to gatekeep feminism and based on your initial comment you are not a feminist.
NP.
Let me help you out since you seem to be struggling with basic concepts:
fem·i·nism
noun
the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.
Don’t you dare shame women for wanting a man to ask them out or even to be dominant in bed. Next you will be advocating for women to not be allowed to stay home with kids or cook dinner even if they want to. If you’re not joking, you’ve gone off the deep end. No wonder men suck so bad nowadays.
-signed progressive feminist
Same poster. You are also not a feminist. PP can want a man to ask her out. That's not feminist. Nothing in her post is feminist. That's okay not all women are feminists.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m a feminist and believe women can and should ask men out… however, I never have. I like a man to show the confidence and wit and initiative it takes to ask me out. I expect to have to show the wit and intelligence to interact in such a way that he wants to ask me out. I also like a man who sometimes likes to be dominant in bed. My desire is very responsive to being desired (like most women, for better or worse). Meek, shy men can’t do this for me.
You are not a feminist. Feminists will go crazy when they hear you say thinks like you want your man to be dominant in bed
You don’t get to gatekeeper feminism, whether your comment was tongue in cheek or not.
NP here. We actually do get to gatekeep feminism and based on your initial comment you are not a feminist.
NP.
Let me help you out since you seem to be struggling with basic concepts:
fem·i·nism
noun
the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes.
Don’t you dare shame women for wanting a man to ask them out or even to be dominant in bed. Next you will be advocating for women to not be allowed to stay home with kids or cook dinner even if they want to. If you’re not joking, you’ve gone off the deep end. No wonder men suck so bad nowadays.
-signed progressive feminist
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m a feminist and believe women can and should ask men out… however, I never have. I like a man to show the confidence and wit and initiative it takes to ask me out. I expect to have to show the wit and intelligence to interact in such a way that he wants to ask me out. I also like a man who sometimes likes to be dominant in bed. My desire is very responsive to being desired (like most women, for better or worse). Meek, shy men can’t do this for me.
You are not a feminist. Feminists will go crazy when they hear you say thinks like you want your man to be dominant in bed
You don’t get to gatekeeper feminism, whether your comment was tongue in cheek or not.
NP here. We actually do get to gatekeep feminism and based on your initial comment you are not a feminist.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m a feminist and believe women can and should ask men out… however, I never have. I like a man to show the confidence and wit and initiative it takes to ask me out. I expect to have to show the wit and intelligence to interact in such a way that he wants to ask me out. I also like a man who sometimes likes to be dominant in bed. My desire is very responsive to being desired (like most women, for better or worse). Meek, shy men can’t do this for me.
You are not a feminist. Feminists will go crazy when they hear you say thinks like you want your man to be dominant in bed
You don’t get to gatekeeper feminism, whether your comment was tongue in cheek or not.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Few woman want to be with a man so fragile that he can’t ask her out.
Alpha predators are so retro.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m a feminist and believe women can and should ask men out… however, I never have. I like a man to show the confidence and wit and initiative it takes to ask me out. I expect to have to show the wit and intelligence to interact in such a way that he wants to ask me out. I also like a man who sometimes likes to be dominant in bed. My desire is very responsive to being desired (like most women, for better or worse). Meek, shy men can’t do this for me.
You are not a feminist. Feminists will go crazy when they hear you say thinks like you want your man to be dominant in bed
Anonymous wrote:I’m a feminist and believe women can and should ask men out… however, I never have. I like a man to show the confidence and wit and initiative it takes to ask me out. I expect to have to show the wit and intelligence to interact in such a way that he wants to ask me out. I also like a man who sometimes likes to be dominant in bed. My desire is very responsive to being desired (like most women, for better or worse). Meek, shy men can’t do this for me.
Anonymous wrote:Few woman want to be with a man so fragile that he can’t ask her out.
Anonymous wrote:I’m a feminist and believe women can and should ask men out… however, I never have. I like a man to show the confidence and wit and initiative it takes to ask me out. I expect to have to show the wit and intelligence to interact in such a way that he wants to ask me out. I also like a man who sometimes likes to be dominant in bed. My desire is very responsive to being desired (like most women, for better or worse). Meek, shy men can’t do this for me.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Unfortunately OP the average man unlike the average woman will not have a woman approaching him. These men being approached by women are often very charismatic charming attractive etc. Women have the opposite problem any bozo will approach them.
A shy woman will be approached for example but a shy man never. If you are a man who is shy skinny good luck your only option is OLD. Dating is brutal.
Handsome shy men are approached often. Ugly shy men are not. Same as beautiful vs ugly women.
Anonymous wrote:I made the first move on my husband. We had been friends for a couple of years and finally I decided to do something about it. That was 34 years ago.