Anonymous
05/19/2024 15:12
Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
I am not 50 but I am 46 and been divorced 2 years. I briefly dated a woman who was 30.and won't do it again. Women at that age have an intense passion to love someone and want to eventually build a family with you. I don't think I can be a fully devoted dad to a toddler at 48 and I have 2 kids from my prior marriage. I heard through mutual friends that my ex wife said that I was dating a young wh***re.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 15:10
Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:I'm mid-late 50s M. I've had physical/romantic relationships with women as young as 34 and as old as 62.
The 34 year old woman and I met online and then ran into each other months later the same night a serious girlfriend dumped me. We went out for a drink and, at the end of the evening, she said she wanted to go home with me. She said I was confident and wise. Our conversations were always interesting and we were very compatible emotionally.
Unfortunately, we only lasted a month, mostly because the sex was terrible. Neither of us could turned the other one on. Sexual compatibility isn't just about looks. She was actually very pretty and she said she liked the way I looked. I think the main problem was that she liked it very rough and I'm more of a gentle lover. She is very smart but not very successful and is estranged from her parents.
A 36 year old woman and I met online. There was instant chemistry. She was interesting and gorgeous. She had come out of a borderline abusive relationship and said she found me very safe. The sex was frequent and amazing. She woke me up to do it again all the time. I decided to get a vasectomy a couple of months into the relationship. Unfortunately, we wanted very different things. She wants to get married again and I don't. She also wants a new dad for her kid. I don't want to be a dad again. My children also said they didn't want me to be with a woman who was closer to their age than mine. We broke up after being together for a year on and off. I think she's now with someone similar to me but slightly older. She says she's much more attracted sexually and emotionally to older men. I definitely believe her.
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So two women who came from troubled families of origins are sexually attracted to men their father's ages? Is that what you have told us?
Anonymous
05/19/2024 15:06
Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m 55 and every time I meet a woman in that age range I remind myself I have two daughters in their mid/late 20s. That fact alone is a great deterrent. If they dated a guy my age I’d freak out.
I’m 58 and two years ago a college GF of my daughter, after graduating, invited me out for drinks and I assumed it was for career advice. That wasn’t what it was about and the relationship lasted about two months until I realized it was really dumb on my part. It was fun while it lasted but I’m better off with my age group.
Damn that chick has issues
The dad has even bigger issues. I would be absolutely disgusted and feel really betrayed if I found out my father had dated and presumably slept with a former college friend of mine. I think most daughters or sons would feel that way.
It’s probably why he ended it.
After he slept with his child's friend for two months. I bet his daughter will still be pretty upset.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 14:24
Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am late 50s, she is mid-20s. Met on Bumble almost 2 years ago. The only downside is she wants sex constantly.
Do you go on dates or is it really more of a casual relationship?
It's a real relationship, hopefully forever. She feels the same way.
Will you be able to scratch that have children itch when it comes to it?
You mean can I perform? Yes, no problem.
No, I mean if she wants children?
She doesn't want kids, but if she changes her mind I would like to have one more child.
Good for you PP.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 14:22
Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m 55 and every time I meet a woman in that age range I remind myself I have two daughters in their mid/late 20s. That fact alone is a great deterrent. If they dated a guy my age I’d freak out.
I’m 58 and two years ago a college GF of my daughter, after graduating, invited me out for drinks and I assumed it was for career advice. That wasn’t what it was about and the relationship lasted about two months until I realized it was really dumb on my part. It was fun while it lasted but I’m better off with my age group.
Damn that chick has issues
The dad has even bigger issues. I would be absolutely disgusted and feel really betrayed if I found out my father had dated and presumably slept with a former college friend of mine. I think most daughters or sons would feel that way.
It’s probably why he ended it.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 13:52
Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am late 50s, she is mid-20s. Met on Bumble almost 2 years ago. The only downside is she wants sex constantly.
Do you go on dates or is it really more of a casual relationship?
It's a real relationship, hopefully forever. She feels the same way.
Will you be able to scratch that have children itch when it comes to it?
You mean can I perform? Yes, no problem.
No, I mean if she wants children?
She doesn't want kids, but if she changes her mind I would like to have one more child.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 13:51
Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m 55 and every time I meet a woman in that age range I remind myself I have two daughters in their mid/late 20s. That fact alone is a great deterrent. If they dated a guy my age I’d freak out.
I’m 58 and two years ago a college GF of my daughter, after graduating, invited me out for drinks and I assumed it was for career advice. That wasn’t what it was about and the relationship lasted about two months until I realized it was really dumb on my part. It was fun while it lasted but I’m better off with my age group.
Damn that chick has issues
No she doesn't. I have been with quite a few women who are in their 20s since I got divorced. A surprising number are just into older guys. Joyfully into it.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 13:49
Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:The age gap works best in really high cost of living cities. Only 1% of the population marries with a 20 year age gap. It's not typical of most men and women. Money. Money. Money. And real estate.
So 3.5 million American men marry a woman 20 years or more younger.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 13:43
Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
I'm mid-late 50s M. I've had physical/romantic relationships with women as young as 34 and as old as 62.
The 34 year old woman and I met online and then ran into each other months later the same night a serious girlfriend dumped me. We went out for a drink and, at the end of the evening, she said she wanted to go home with me. She said I was confident and wise. Our conversations were always interesting and we were very compatible emotionally.
Unfortunately, we only lasted a month, mostly because the sex was terrible. Neither of us could turned the other one on. Sexual compatibility isn't just about looks. She was actually very pretty and she said she liked the way I looked. I think the main problem was that she liked it very rough and I'm more of a gentle lover. She is very smart but not very successful and is estranged from her parents.
A 36 year old woman and I met online. There was instant chemistry. She was interesting and gorgeous. She had come out of a borderline abusive relationship and said she found me very safe. The sex was frequent and amazing. She woke me up to do it again all the time. I decided to get a vasectomy a couple of months into the relationship. Unfortunately, we wanted very different things. She wants to get married again and I don't. She also wants a new dad for her kid. I don't want to be a dad again. My children also said they didn't want me to be with a woman who was closer to their age than mine. We broke up after being together for a year on and off. I think she's now with someone similar to me but slightly older. She says she's much more attracted sexually and emotionally to older men. I definitely believe her.
The
The 34 year old woman and I met online and then ran into each other months later the same night a serious girlfriend dumped me. We went out for a drink and, at the end of the evening, she said she wanted to go home with me. She said I was confident and wise. Our conversations were always interesting and we were very compatible emotionally.
Unfortunately, we only lasted a month, mostly because the sex was terrible. Neither of us could turned the other one on. Sexual compatibility isn't just about looks. She was actually very pretty and she said she liked the way I looked. I think the main problem was that she liked it very rough and I'm more of a gentle lover. She is very smart but not very successful and is estranged from her parents.
A 36 year old woman and I met online. There was instant chemistry. She was interesting and gorgeous. She had come out of a borderline abusive relationship and said she found me very safe. The sex was frequent and amazing. She woke me up to do it again all the time. I decided to get a vasectomy a couple of months into the relationship. Unfortunately, we wanted very different things. She wants to get married again and I don't. She also wants a new dad for her kid. I don't want to be a dad again. My children also said they didn't want me to be with a woman who was closer to their age than mine. We broke up after being together for a year on and off. I think she's now with someone similar to me but slightly older. She says she's much more attracted sexually and emotionally to older men. I definitely believe her.
The
Anonymous
05/19/2024 13:35
Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m 55 and every time I meet a woman in that age range I remind myself I have two daughters in their mid/late 20s. That fact alone is a great deterrent. If they dated a guy my age I’d freak out.
I’m 58 and two years ago a college GF of my daughter, after graduating, invited me out for drinks and I assumed it was for career advice. That wasn’t what it was about and the relationship lasted about two months until I realized it was really dumb on my part. It was fun while it lasted but I’m better off with my age group.
Damn that chick has issues
The dad has even bigger issues. I would be absolutely disgusted and feel really betrayed if I found out my father had dated and presumably slept with a former college friend of mine. I think most daughters or sons would feel that way.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 13:19
Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I’m 55 and every time I meet a woman in that age range I remind myself I have two daughters in their mid/late 20s. That fact alone is a great deterrent. If they dated a guy my age I’d freak out.
I’m 58 and two years ago a college GF of my daughter, after graduating, invited me out for drinks and I assumed it was for career advice. That wasn’t what it was about and the relationship lasted about two months until I realized it was really dumb on my part. It was fun while it lasted but I’m better off with my age group.
Damn that chick has issues
Anonymous
05/19/2024 13:16
Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
The age gap works best in really high cost of living cities. Only 1% of the population marries with a 20 year age gap. It's not typical of most men and women. Money. Money. Money. And real estate.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 12:07
Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Check out the "Hope Hicks engaged to Goldman Sachs boss" thread on the Entertainment Forum. She's 35 and he's 58.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 12:06
Subject: 50+ men with 20s and 30s women
39f he was 60 very wealthy and retired several years ago. It recently ended because I wanted sex too much.
Anonymous
05/19/2024 11:57
Subject: Re:50+ men with 20s and 30s women
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:I am late 50s, she is mid-20s. Met on Bumble almost 2 years ago. The only downside is she wants sex constantly.
Do you go on dates or is it really more of a casual relationship?
It's a real relationship, hopefully forever. She feels the same way.
Will you be able to scratch that have children itch when it comes to it?
You mean can I perform? Yes, no problem.
No, I mean if she wants children?