Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 00:14     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Do you think most men just prefer blonde hair?

I think I look more attractive with brown hair (with highlights), but I get a ridiculous amount more attention with long plat blonde hair.

The attention is both positive & negative.

Positive = Way more men seem to find me attractive, even if my face looks bad. It's like the long, bright blonde hair gives an instant halo effect.

Negative = More aggressive approaches and harassment... people talk down to me and speak to me like I'm a moron. I get zero respect in work environments.

I am turning 30 soon, so I thought I'd revamp my appearance. After months of being platinum blonde (and feeling like I look kind of uglier & more washed out imo), I've concluded that most men prefer blonde hair. I get hit on and approached constantly. Even sitting in a hotel lobby, waiting in line, going to the grocery store or the bank. It seems like men find me way more attractive than before (but I also experience more random aggression and harassment). I can't even go pick up food at a restaurant without getting comments on my appearance.

But looking at old photos, I seriously think I look more attractive as a brunette. So I don't know whether to stay blonde or not.


I mean…I am a brunette and I also got approached constantly in my 20s.


Didn’t 99 percent of all women in their 20s get approached. I’m a dark brown Black woman and I did. I was a cutie w a brick house body.




The point is that blondes get approached 20 times for every One time that a brunette gets approached
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 00:12     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
Anonymous wrote:Only natural blondes.


No one is natural blonde past age 20
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 00:11     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
Anonymous wrote:Fact: the primary male demographic segments who prefer blondes are Arab and Persian males.



I get most attention from white men and asian men (like Korean /Japanese) when I have bright blonde hair

With dark hair, I attract way more Hispanic, African american, and nerdier men
Anonymous
Post 05/21/2024 00:06     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
Anonymous wrote:I am pretty with dark blonde, light brown hair. When I go platinum (which is a pain) I look hot. When I go "brown" I look cute. Much different how I am perceived.

I think women with brown hair who still get tons of attention look like Megan Fox, not like the girl next door.


Yeah, I think I look more cute and wholesome looking with brown hair (I look younger too). People are much kinder and more respectful towards me.

With blonde I get stared at way more and men approach me way more aggressively (I get hit on by pretty much every single man I interact with too, even if it’s a random stranger). And people seem to have less respect for me. That never happened to me as a brunette. My hair is extremely long (Im talking almost waist length) and playboy bunny color though. I really don’t even think my face is that attractive lol, but I definetily get called beautiful way more with the blonde hair
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 09:36     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
Anonymous wrote:Only natural blondes.

And natural blonde below the belt…
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 09:07     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
Only natural blondes.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 09:06     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
I went brunette once. I was invisible to men for two months. The harassment did stop, but I had to carry my own grocery bags.
Darker hair doesn't look good on me at all. Light hair adds 2 points and I skip make up altogether.
I'm invisible at home in Northern Europe, but appear the minute I stand in customs line in US.
I have never felt that someone thinks I'm stupid because of my hair color. Helps not to look American.

Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 08:34     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
I’m blonde and noticed I tend to get an overwhelming amount of attention from men who aren’t white. Never been brunette though so I can’t say whether that happens to them too.
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 08:29     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
Gentlemen Prefer Blondes
Anonymous
Post 05/19/2024 08:14     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
One of the most beauftiful woman I ever dated is blonde. The most beautiful woman I ever dated (and married) is a brunette.

Two completely different body type. Most men would probably go for the blonde more for her body type, the brunette was more my body type.

Bottom line at the end of the day, I don't think, in a meaningful relationship, the hair type tis going to be that big of a factor.
Anonymous
Post 05/18/2024 10:34     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
The bottom line is pretty privilege. If you are pretty it doesn't matter.
Anonymous
Post 05/18/2024 10:22     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
Anonymous wrote:You don’t want to attract a man who prefers blondes, because then you’ll be chained to dye forever. Find someone who loves your natural color.


This. Find a look that pleases YOU and you feel confident and powerful in.

Anonymous
Post 05/18/2024 10:17     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
As another PP said, what is your goal here? You seem oddly fixated on how much and how many men find you attractive. Which says to me you likely have low self esteem. Maybe work on your inside a little and you end up attracting high quality men. Quality over quantity.

I'm blond (woman) but have always loved dark hair. I can't pull it off. But it always blows my mind that people like Kim K. And Katy Perry went blonde when they both are way more gorgeous with their glossy dark hair.
Anonymous
Post 05/18/2024 10:16     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
Hair color is irrelevant. Blond, brunette, redhead. All good.
Anonymous
Post 05/18/2024 10:12     Subject: Do most men prefer Blonde hair?
Fact: the primary male demographic segments who prefer blondes are Arab and Persian males.