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Anonymous wrote:I stopped talking to him. He says his brother is working in Dubai. His 2 year old nephew who doesn't speak English is often with him. In the middle of our last conversation his nephew was trying to get his attention and kept saying " baba". He tried to tell me it meant Uncle.

That’s his son.

Which is why I stopped talking to him. He's supposed to be an unmarried virgin.

People are really out here looking for a 40 year old virgin??

He's in his 30s, and I didn't care about that.

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Anonymous wrote:I stopped talking to him. He says his brother is working in Dubai. His 2 year old nephew who doesn't speak English is often with him. In the middle of our last conversation his nephew was trying to get his attention and kept saying " baba". He tried to tell me it meant Uncle.

That’s his son.

Which is why I stopped talking to him. He's supposed to be an unmarried virgin.

People are really out here looking for a 40 year old virgin??

I know it's hard to believe for the typical dcum Man or woman who was a hoe in the past.

Source: I lived in Karachi for two years.

Will not waste time with long explanation, but I can 100% guarantee this man has a wife in Pakistan if that is where his parents are. The marriages are arranged by parents at a relatively young age, and not being married is considered strange. These aren't "love matches", and the new young wife (often a cousin) moves in with the man's parents. It's super common for the wife to stay behind when the man goes overseas for work or school.

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Anonymous wrote:I stopped talking to him. He says his brother is working in Dubai. His 2 year old nephew who doesn't speak English is often with him. In the middle of our last conversation his nephew was trying to get his attention and kept saying " baba". He tried to tell me it meant Uncle.

That’s his son.

Which is why I stopped talking to him. He's supposed to be an unmarried virgin.

People are really out here looking for a 40 year old virgin??

Anonymous wrote:I met someone online. While we were video chatting I noticed a silver band on his right hand. He says it's a part of his culture. Is this true? He says he's never been married.

Take a Xanax OP. Or was it really his left hand and the image was flipped?

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Why are you so desperate to look for husbands overseas? If you can't find one on your own, try local matchmakers and apps.

I wasn't/ I am not looking overseas. We began chatting on an app that's not for dating.

No problem then to begin with.

It doesn't matter anymore. My point is it turned into something else, it didn't start with me seeking a man overseas.

In that case, there is no harm if you two are able to visit each other and investigate backgrounds.

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Anonymous wrote:I met someone online. While we were video chatting I noticed a silver band on his right hand. He says it's a part of his culture. Is this true? He says he's never been married.

It's part of his culture to wear his wedding ring on his right hand. He is married and didn't think to take it off.

No its not part of that culture.

Anonymous wrote:I met someone online. While we were video chatting I noticed a silver band on his right hand. He says it's a part of his culture. Is this true? He says he's never been married.

It's part of his culture to wear his wedding ring on his right hand. He is married and didn't think to take it off.

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Why are you so desperate to look for husbands overseas? If you can't find one on your own, try local matchmakers and apps.

I wasn't/ I am not looking overseas. We began chatting on an app that's not for dating.

No problem then to begin with.

It doesn't matter anymore. My point is it turned into something else, it didn't start with me seeking a man overseas.

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Why are you so desperate to look for husbands overseas? If you can't find one on your own, try local matchmakers and apps.

I wasn't/ I am not looking overseas. We began chatting on an app that's not for dating.

No problem then to begin with.

Pakistani born and raised here tend to wear wedding rings, so does westernized Pakistani in Pakistan itself.

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Why are you so desperate to look for husbands overseas? If you can't find one on your own, try local matchmakers and apps.

I wasn't/ I am not looking overseas. We began chatting on an app that's not for dating.

Anonymous wrote:He's Muslim and can have 4 if he can afford it and be fair to them all. He cannot afford it. He told me he was an unmarried virgin. I wouldn't have cared if he was divorced. I want my own man. Polygamy is not for me.

You might not want to be polygamous, but even if he were an unmarried virgin, once he's married to you there is nothing to stop him from getting married to another woman. Lots of men from those countries have a wife in the west, and another wife back home.

Anonymous wrote:Orthodox Christians wear wedding bands on their right hand.

I grew up Orthodox and everyone in my family except for 1 or 2 cousins wears rings on their left hands.

Why are you so desperate to look for husbands overseas? If you can't find one on your own, try local matchmakers and apps.