Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My friend got used, dumped and then got caught. Husband divorced her. Older teens didn’t take it well.
Wait, how did she get caught if the guy had already dumped her??
She (the friend) was still married when her AP dumped her.
Her DH found out she had the affair and divorced her because of it.
Yeah. Men are much likelier to file for divorce.
Not a commentary on PP's story, but this is not correct. Women are much more likely to file for divorce -- nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women.
Women file overall for divorce, but when women cheat it’s always the men that file.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My friend got used, dumped and then got caught. Husband divorced her. Older teens didn’t take it well.
Wait, how did she get caught if the guy had already dumped her??
She (the friend) was still married when her AP dumped her.
Her DH found out she had the affair and divorced her because of it.
Yeah. Men are much likelier to file for divorce.
Not a commentary on PP's story, but this is not correct. Women are much more likely to file for divorce -- nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women.
Women file overall for divorce, but when women cheat it’s always the men that file.
Anonymous wrote:I'm not going to, I have zero desire to blow up my good marriage, hurt my wonderful husband, or harm the loving family I've helped create for my kids.
But I'm going through some kind of hormonal thing and I'm insanely horny lately and have also developed an intense crush on a man in my orbit. Again, no interest in actually doing anything about it. But think about it all. the. time.
Has anyone been through this? Did it pass eventually? I'm almost enjoying it because it's been so long since I had that feeling of serious crush with strong physical attraction/chemistry. But it's also stressful because I feel a little guilty about the thoughts I'm having, and also worried that it's written all over my face.
Please tell me your stories of managing a midlife crush while happily married! I'm sitting here trying to work and instead engaging in some very cheesy fantasies and trying not to blush.
Anonymous wrote:I had an affair and it was fun and I don’t regret it. Don’t get caught and know it always ends so just have fun.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My friend got used, dumped and then got caught. Husband divorced her. Older teens didn’t take it well.
Wait, how did she get caught if the guy had already dumped her??
She (the friend) was still married when her AP dumped her.
Her DH found out she had the affair and divorced her because of it.
Yeah. Men are much likelier to file for divorce.
Not a commentary on PP's story, but this is not correct. Women are much more likely to file for divorce -- nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My friend got used, dumped and then got caught. Husband divorced her. Older teens didn’t take it well.
Wait, how did she get caught if the guy had already dumped her??
She (the friend) was still married when her AP dumped her.
Her DH found out she had the affair and divorced her because of it.
Yeah. Men are much likelier to file for divorce.
Not a commentary on PP's story, but this is not correct. Women are much more likely to file for divorce -- nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women.
I think pp means in the event of cheating but I disagree with that point. I think a lot of men stay with cheating wives but they just keep quiet about the whole thing because it’s so emasculating.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My friend got used, dumped and then got caught. Husband divorced her. Older teens didn’t take it well.
Wait, how did she get caught if the guy had already dumped her??
She (the friend) was still married when her AP dumped her.
Her DH found out she had the affair and divorced her because of it.
Yeah. Men are much likelier to file for divorce.
Not a commentary on PP's story, but this is not correct. Women are much more likely to file for divorce -- nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women.
I think pp means in the event of cheating but I disagree with that point. I think a lot of men stay with cheating wives but they just keep quiet about the whole thing because it’s so emasculating.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My friend got used, dumped and then got caught. Husband divorced her. Older teens didn’t take it well.
Wait, how did she get caught if the guy had already dumped her??
She (the friend) was still married when her AP dumped her.
Her DH found out she had the affair and divorced her because of it.
Yeah. Men are much likelier to file for divorce.
Not a commentary on PP's story, but this is not correct. Women are much more likely to file for divorce -- nearly 70% of divorces are initiated by women.
Anonymous wrote:Anonymous wrote:My friend got used, dumped and then got caught. Husband divorced her. Older teens didn’t take it well.
Wait, how did she get caught if the guy had already dumped her??
She (the friend) was still married when her AP dumped her.
Her DH found out she had the affair and divorced her because of it.
Yeah. Men are much likelier to file for divorce.
Anonymous wrote:My friend got used, dumped and then got caught. Husband divorced her. Older teens didn’t take it well.
Wait, how did she get caught if the guy had already dumped her??
She (the friend) was still married when her AP dumped her.
Her DH found out she had the affair and divorced her because of it.
Anonymous wrote:Did not get caught and did not regret it one bit. Still happily married and enjoying retirement!
Anonymous wrote:Did not get caught and did not regret it one bit. Still happily married and enjoying retirement!