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Anonymous wrote:I think there is no general answer. This is personal to your own children. Statistics are 45% of teens 15-19 have had sex. Average age for first time sex in US is 17.

Most 12-15 yr olds are not having sex. Especially if your younger teen is busy with extracurriculars and a rigorous academic schedule, and they aren’t in a relationship, chances are they are not having sex with anyone.

I would love to see a study comparing teens with more extracurriculars and “rigor” with those with less, and age of first sexual activity. My bet is the difference won’t be statistically significant.

DS was 17 - varsity sport, club sport, rec sport, 10 AP classes in HS, full time summer job...GF of 2y... evidently, they found time.

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Anonymous wrote:I think there is no general answer. This is personal to your own children. Statistics are 45% of teens 15-19 have had sex. Average age for first time sex in US is 17.

Most 12-15 yr olds are not having sex. Especially if your younger teen is busy with extracurriculars and a rigorous academic schedule, and they aren’t in a relationship, chances are they are not having sex with anyone.

I would love to see a study comparing teens with more extracurriculars and “rigor” with those with less, and age of first sexual activity. My bet is the difference won’t be statistically significant.

Anonymous wrote:A very small percentage of kids have sex before 15. Majority do not

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Anonymous wrote:I think there is no general answer. This is personal to your own children. Statistics are 45% of teens 15-19 have had sex. Average age for first time sex in US is 17.

Most 12-15 yr olds are not having sex. Especially if your younger teen is busy with extracurriculars and a rigorous academic schedule, and they aren’t in a relationship, chances are they are not having sex with anyone.

I would love to see a study comparing teens with more extracurriculars and “rigor” with those with less, and age of first sexual activity. My bet is the difference won’t be statistically significant.

NP. I don't know. The ones I know of in the middle school already into all the things have a whole lot of time on their hands in pretty lightly supervised environments.

Not saying other kids don't find a way if they are so inclined.

This is similar to what I have seen as well. The kids with lots of time on their hands and inadequate supervision, are into all sorts of things (and not just sex, vaping, drinking, etc.). The ones with lots of time on their hands but parents who don't try to be their friends are considerably less likely to engage in all fo the above.

I don't agree with this at all. First, you're lumping vaping, drinking, and sex together. I don't see them as similar at all UNLESS you're dealing with promiscuity. It is normal for teens to date and also normal for teens to have sex. The CDC says more than half of teens have had sex before 18. Are you seriously thinking that more than half the teens are inadequately supervised and that is why they have had sex?

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Anonymous wrote:I think kids with time on their hands get into more trouble - sex, vaping, depression, social drama etc. I see this with kids in our MS.
Keep your kids busy and engaged!

Keep your kids close. Busy doesn’t guarantee anything.

we can debate this all day long, but by default the less time kids have on their hands the less time they have to engage in risky behavior. Its simple math.

Ask Asian young adults in their early 20’s what their thoughts are on keeping them busy to keep them “perfect”

Ask them about their scroll of mental health issues

Anonymous wrote:I think kids with time on their hands get into more trouble - sex, vaping, depression, social drama etc. I see this with kids in our MS.
Keep your kids busy and engaged!

Anonymous wrote:My nephews are very good looking and the popular kids at their school. Student athletes, homecoming court, marching band. Those are the boys who are able to get the pretty girls, and the ones that have the opportunity to engage in sexual activity. I don't think they have had intercourse before junior year, but they do all sorts of other things, including sharing photos/videos online, that are worth parents knowing about. Extracurriculars and rigorous academics in no way whatsoever keep kids from hitting puberty and experiencing sexual urges. (I went to HSYP and was doing all sorts of things short of PIV in high school.)

"Most 12-15 yr olds are not having sex. Especially if your younger teen is busy with extracurriculars and a rigorous academic schedule, and they aren’t in a relationship, chances are they are not having sex with anyone."

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Anonymous wrote:“The 2022 Fairfax County Youth Survey of 8th, 10th, and 12th Grade Students included several questions on students’ sexual activities. One in ten students (10.1%) reported having had sexual intercourse at least once in their lifetime, ranging from 1.6% of eighth-grade students to 22.0% of twelfth-grade students. A larger percentage of male students reported having had intercourse (10.8% compared to 8.9% of female students). The percentage of students who have had intercourse varied by racial/ethnic group, ranging from 4.5% of Asian students to 13.8% of Hispanic students. The rate for lifetime prevalence of sexual intercourse dropped 1.7 percentage points from 2021 to 2022, and the percentage of students in 2022 who reported having had sexual intercourse in their lifetime was 12.5 percentage points lower than the 2010 rate. Approximately one in fifteen Fairfax County students (6.8%) reported having sexual intercourse in the past three months, including 15.3% of twelfth-grade students.
Less than two thirds of the Fairfax County students (63.1%) who are sexually active* reported using a condom during their last sexual intercourse. Male students were more likely to report condom use (66.8% compared to 59.4% of female students). Students of other or multiple races reported the lowest rate of condom usage (57.5%) during their last sexual intercourse. The 2022 rate increased by roughly 2.0 percentage points from 2021 after declining for three consecutive survey years since 2018.
About one in nine students (11.0%) reported having had oral sex in their lifetime, ranging from 2.3% of eighth-grade students to 22.7% of twelfth-grade students. Male students were more likely to report having had oral sex (12.1% compared to 9.4% of female students). Rates of having had oral sex ranged from 5.7% of Asian students to 13.6% of White students and students of other or multiple races. The rate has continued to trend downward since 2010 when 26.2% of students reported having oral sex in their

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Take those self reported polls with a grain of salt. Kids don't want to report what they've done/haven't done even when anonymous.

Exactly. Boys saying they used condoms more than the girls? Right there that shows you a bunch of lies are happening here. I would like an anonymous poll asking if you lie on the sex anonymous polls

Anonymous wrote:

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Anonymous wrote:I think kids with time on their hands get into more trouble - sex, vaping, depression, social drama etc. I see this with kids in our MS.
Keep your kids busy and engaged!

Keep your kids close. Busy doesn’t guarantee anything.

we can debate this all day long, but by default the less time kids have on their hands the less time they have to engage in risky behavior. Its simple math.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think kids with time on their hands get into more trouble - sex, vaping, depression, social drama etc. I see this with kids in our MS.
Keep your kids busy and engaged!

Keep your kids close. Busy doesn’t guarantee anything.

we can debate this all day long, but by default the less time kids have on their hands the less time they have to engage in risky behavior. Its simple math.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think kids with time on their hands get into more trouble - sex, vaping, depression, social drama etc. I see this with kids in our MS.
Keep your kids busy and engaged!

Keep your kids close. Busy doesn’t guarantee anything.

Anonymous wrote:I think kids with time on their hands get into more trouble - sex, vaping, depression, social drama etc. I see this with kids in our MS.
Keep your kids busy and engaged!

Anonymous wrote:I think kids with time on their hands get into more trouble - sex, vaping, depression, social drama etc. I see this with kids in our MS.
Keep your kids busy and engaged!