Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 16:16     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Affair (spouse not me)
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 16:10     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
SN youngest child with aggressive, unpredictable behavior at home. It's challenged our marriage and family relationships in ways I could have never imagined.
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 16:09     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Division of labor

DH’s complete lack of interest in sex and unwillingness to look into it or change

DH avoidance of anything stressful in life

DW mental health struggles

Money


Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 16:01     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:One sink in the master bathroom.


I’ll never get this problem. What is happening, are you both trying to spit at the same time? Why don’t you just take turns in the bathroom? I don’t get it. Even if you’re in the bathroom at the same time, I don’t get why more counter space isn’t preferable.


Ha! I get this problem. My husband is very hairy, shaves daily, and cuts his own hair. His sink is always a mess or clogged or something. I like having my own nice space.
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 15:29     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Spouse's alcohol consumption
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 15:28     Subject: Re:Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Spouse has major health issues, which has limited their earning/job potential, while increasing our expenses. It's not her fault, but it's still a strain.
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 15:28     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Nothing *shrugs*
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 15:27     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Anonymous wrote:Untreated ADHD


+1

Untreated adhd/asd
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 15:26     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Husband's laziness about everything (his own health, his sex drive - lack thereof, my dissatisfaction with our lack of sex life, planning anything every in any way for or with our family, ...)
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 14:37     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Anonymous wrote:Long-term lies and betrayal


yep, his co-worker mistress.
DONT LET YOUR SPOUSE HAVE CLOSE WORK FRIENDS OF THE OPPOSITE SEX. MOST AFFAIRS ARE WITH CO-WORKERS.
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 14:24     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
High needs 1st child. She broke the entire family
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 14:23     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
In-law expectations and boundary issues are hands down the most stressful aspect of our relationship.
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 14:12     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Untreated ADHD
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 14:10     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
Anonymous wrote:One sink in the master bathroom.


I’ll never get this problem. What is happening, are you both trying to spit at the same time? Why don’t you just take turns in the bathroom? I don’t get it. Even if you’re in the bathroom at the same time, I don’t get why more counter space isn’t preferable.
Anonymous
Post 04/16/2024 14:06     Subject: Biggest strain in your marriage / relationship
One sink in the master bathroom.