Op, people want to marry their equal. Their equal in education, ambition. Their career equal. Are you expecting a better educated, higher earner than yourself? You shouldn't. If you insist on finding an unequal match, on making that your priority, you are ikely to end up with a spouse that doesn't respect you. Won't respect you as an equal.

That's harsh. Harsh to say. But you need to start from that point-of-view.

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Anonymous wrote:The question is why are you "marriage material"?

+1 I'm wealthy and have a career. I expect the same from a partner.

If you've all that then you've crossed the age bracket, men looking for marriage material want.

Anonymous wrote:I just feel like I cannot get the right kind of attention from provider kind-set men who want a wife and a family.

I seem to atttract the artsy low earner bohemian types.

What should I do?

Be the provider kind-set women who want a husband and a family.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're wealthy, you say? Hire a matchmaker and tell them what you want. They will only match you with men who want to and are ready to get married.

Is a matchmaker only for the white and wealthy? I need one

It's for whoever can afford the matchmaker's fee. The first person I knew who hired one was in their late 20's and worked for the EPA as an attorney so I don't think she was wealthy.

Did it work out?

She's married with at least one kid, last I saw her.

Anonymous wrote:Meet men in church instead of online.

This is where single guys go to me rebound woman not wives. They are all looking for something they are not getting at home but don’t want to break up the family.

Anonymous wrote:I just feel like I cannot get the right kind of attention from provider kind-set men who want a wife and a family.

I seem to atttract the artsy low earner bohemian types.

What should I do?

So you want a sugar daddy?

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're wealthy, you say? Hire a matchmaker and tell them what you want. They will only match you with men who want to and are ready to get married.

Is a matchmaker only for the white and wealthy? I need one

It's for whoever can afford the matchmaker's fee. The first person I knew who hired one was in their late 20's and worked for the EPA as an attorney so I don't think she was wealthy.

Did it work out?

Marriage is overrated.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:You're wealthy, you say? Hire a matchmaker and tell them what you want. They will only match you with men who want to and are ready to get married.

Is a matchmaker only for the white and wealthy? I need one

It's for whoever can afford the matchmaker's fee. The first person I knew who hired one was in their late 20's and worked for the EPA as an attorney so I don't think she was wealthy.

Anonymous wrote:Go to a church where men have this mindset: Latter Day Saints (Mormon) or a Catholic Mass affiliated with Opus Dei.

Will only work if you're under the age of 22.

Go to a church where men have this mindset: Latter Day Saints (Mormon) or a Catholic Mass affiliated with Opus Dei.

Get in a time machine back to undergrad. Attend a good university. Pick smart, athletic good looking guy from a good family and religious upbringing to be your boyfriend. Tada!

Anonymous wrote:I just feel like I cannot get the right kind of attention from provider kind-set men who want a wife and a family.

I seem to atttract the artsy low earner bohemian types.

What should I do?

Troll DCUM with 10+ fake threads a day!

OP hasn't come back yet. I hope she's off finding something to bring to the table.

Anonymous wrote:You're wealthy, you say? Hire a matchmaker and tell them what you want. They will only match you with men who want to and are ready to get married.

Is a matchmaker only for the white and wealthy? I need one