Anonymous wrote:OP here. He also said he doesn't know if he wants to be with someone who would go through his stuff like that and not trust him. He said it's making him question my morals. My ex cheated on me and I told him from the start that I have trust issues. This isn't the first thing I haven't trusted. He's getting tired of it.

Anonymous wrote:He’s annoying. I don’t want to hear anything else about this relationship. Please end it

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I should add he doesn't like condoms and I wasn't on BC when we met. He has been fine with unprotected sex and doesn't like pulling out. I had to take plan b and now I started the pill even though I hate the hormones. I said if I got pregnant that I would want an abortion since it's so early, he says he would be happy with me having his baby.
Just makes me more suspicious that he could be careless like this with another woman, since he seems to want a baby and doesn't care about waiting too much first. That's why it wouldn't surprise me if he needed the test for another woman.

No wonder he has pregnancy tests lying around.

Anonymous wrote:Girlfriend's leave stuff behind. Panties, sex toys, birth control, dumb self-help books...

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I should add he doesn't like condoms and I wasn't on BC when we met. He has been fine with unprotected sex and doesn't like pulling out. I had to take plan b and now I started the pill even though I hate the hormones. I said if I got pregnant that I would want an abortion since it's so early, he says he would be happy with me having his baby.
Just makes me more suspicious that he could be careless like this with another woman, since he seems to want a baby and doesn't care about waiting too much first. That's why it wouldn't surprise me if he needed the test for another woman.

Anonymous wrote:I’m trying to picture the headboard with the shelving, but I don’t think I’ve seen anything like it. Nonetheless, it’s odd that he never noticed the pregnancy test after months in his home, while you spotted it right away (so obviously it was visible). He’s a doofus.

Anonymous wrote:Troll Score: B-. Graded up for new material.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I should add he doesn't like condoms and I wasn't on BC when we met. He has been fine with unprotected sex and doesn't like pulling out. I had to take plan b and now I started the pill even though I hate the hormones. I said if I got pregnant that I would want an abortion since it's so early, he says he would be happy with me having his baby.
Just makes me more suspicious that he could be careless like this with another woman, since he seems to want a baby and doesn't care about waiting too much first. That's why it wouldn't surprise me if he needed the test for another woman.

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:1. First sex should have been at his place: why was it always at yours or hotels? It does seem from that he was sleeping with other woman and deciding between you two.
2. He’s extremely careless - I would worry for STDs big time. Are you crazy, OP? Not using protection first sex, did he show you the std test including genital herpes?

I wouldn’t trust him either and in fact I would run from this guy who doesn’t like condoms asap

Fun fact: there is no screening test for genital herpes. You can get a lesion swabbed and know you have it, but there is no way to prove that you don’t.

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I should add he doesn't like condoms and I wasn't on BC when we met. He has been fine with unprotected sex and doesn't like pulling out. I had to take plan b and now I started the pill even though I hate the hormones. I said if I got pregnant that I would want an abortion since it's so early, he says he would be happy with me having his baby.
Just makes me more suspicious that he could be careless like this with another woman, since he seems to want a baby and doesn't care about waiting too much first. That's why it wouldn't surprise me if he needed the test for another woman.