Anonymous
Post 04/07/2024 18:01     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:Parents be justifying abusive behavior...

https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/effects-of-yelling-at-kids#3.-Yelling-can-lead-to-depression


Nobody is justifying it. People are saying this coach is not abusive. Some other Bethesda coaches are, most notably SC.

This is about not smearing someone as abusive just because he is loud. This coach is fairly new to BSC and is nothing like those coaches. Not saying he’s perfect, but he is not tied to them whatsoever in style or background.


2012s appear to be thriving under SC. Which team is he coaching next season?
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2024 16:22     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
A famous man once said, Who should I believe? You? Or my lying eyes. This team dropped from a 20th national ranking to 300 something and our ECNLrl team is almost as good now. Results don't lie.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2024 15:56     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Anonymous wrote:Parents be justifying abusive behavior...

https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/effects-of-yelling-at-kids#3.-Yelling-can-lead-to-depression


Nobody is justifying it. People are saying this coach is not abusive. Some other Bethesda coaches are, most notably SC.

This is about not smearing someone as abusive just because he is loud. This coach is fairly new to BSC and is nothing like those coaches. Not saying he’s perfect, but he is not tied to them whatsoever in style or background.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2024 12:40     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Anonymous wrote:Parents be justifying abusive behavior...

https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/effects-of-yelling-at-kids#3.-Yelling-can-lead-to-depression


some kids would do better at math if their teachers yelled more...some would not.
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2024 10:07     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Parents be justifying abusive behavior...

https://www.healthline.com/health/parenting/effects-of-yelling-at-kids#3.-Yelling-can-lead-to-depression
Anonymous
Post 04/07/2024 00:20     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:At Jeff Cup all he did was yell at the players and it hurt their performance. Please send him back to the MLS Next teams he's so highly regarded by. My DD thinks he's terrible.


Which team? ECNL or RL?


They are talking about 2009 ECNL coach. Seems the parents feel differently about him. One parent sounds like an entitled cry baby while the others aren’t bothered by “yelling”.

If the yelling is insulting like some other BSC coaches, than maybe they are justified but if the yelling is directed or constructive criticism, that parent should just tell they’re kid to quit soccer and pickup cross country or something.



The coach in question is not insulting or degrading.
Anonymous
Post 04/06/2024 21:51     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:At Jeff Cup all he did was yell at the players and it hurt their performance. Please send him back to the MLS Next teams he's so highly regarded by. My DD thinks he's terrible.


Which team? ECNL or RL?


They are talking about 2009 ECNL coach. Seems the parents feel differently about him. One parent sounds like an entitled cry baby while the others aren’t bothered by “yelling”.

If the yelling is insulting like some other BSC coaches, than maybe they are justified but if the yelling is directed or constructive criticism, that parent should just tell they’re kid to quit soccer and pickup cross country or something.

Anonymous
Post 04/06/2024 19:35     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Anonymous wrote:At Jeff Cup all he did was yell at the players and it hurt their performance. Please send him back to the MLS Next teams he's so highly regarded by. My DD thinks he's terrible.


Which team? ECNL or RL?
Anonymous
Post 04/06/2024 18:31     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
At Jeff Cup all he did was yell at the players and it hurt their performance. Please send him back to the MLS Next teams he's so highly regarded by. My DD thinks he's terrible.
Anonymous
Post 04/06/2024 16:24     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
2009 coach will be returning next year for the girls team.
Anonymous
Post 04/06/2024 00:30     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The one coaching the 09's at Jeff Cup yelled alot.


Dumb comment. He does yell a lot but is not demeaning. Heavy accent. He is nothing like KL, SC, MN, and DG. He is actually in high demand for MLS Next teams. It’s too bad he got stuck with the 09s because we would love to have him.


Ditto on dumb comment about the BSC’s 09 coach. He’s an amazing coach, very humble and patient with our girls. We DO NOT want him to be taken please!
Anonymous
Post 04/05/2024 17:13     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Everyone knows MD United are mostly Baltimore area players. Just like NVU is mostly Loudoun Soccer. It's a farce to say this is serving the Upper Marlboro community. It's the truth to say ECNL is using the UM community. Thanks for those nice fields. We'll let one or two of your players participate.
Anonymous
Post 04/04/2024 23:19     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Anonymous wrote:They’ve been there for nearly two seasons now, catch up 🧌


Yeah, they were there even when the fields were barely finished!
Anonymous
Post 04/04/2024 23:07     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
They’ve been there for nearly two seasons now, catch up 🧌
Anonymous
Post 04/04/2024 21:21     Subject: Bethesda Girls Coaches
Anonymous wrote:How come there are three ECNL clubs in Northern VA but only one in MD suburbs? How come ECNL doesn't have a club that serves PG county where many African Americans live?


MD united taking advantage of this. They're moving to Liberty in upper Marlboro