Anonymous
03/19/2024 11:59
Subject: Please help me understand my husband…
Is there something else that you guys could come up with for him to do that signals relaxation and helps him to wind down? We recently put in a hot tub and now when we get home from work and we're stressed we hop in the hot tub. Think about other things he might want to do to unwind.
Anonymous
03/19/2024 11:53
Subject: Re:Please help me understand my husband…
Anonymous wrote:I haven’t mentioned it to him because I don’t see it as a health problem necessarily. It’s not my business if it’s not a problem.
A lot of the PPs on this site must think that spouses can’t have independent thoughts that they don’t talk about openly.
I actually agreed with DH when he voluntarily switched to wine.
Oh, and I don’t join him because I don’t want to drink 3 times a week and I have other ways to relax.
It’s just a mildly annoying habit but everyone has one.
Why is it important to switch to wine?
Wine has the problem of being in a larger bottle so it invites drinking more in one sitting, and it also has denser alcohol content than beer.